Are guys attracted to me only because of my big boobs???

Question

I think I'm attractive, but since I have big boobs, I sometimes wonder whether guys are talking/flirting/etc. with me because they think I have a pretty face and that I have a nice personality OR just because I have big boobs. I wonder things like, "would this guy really be talking to me, if I had small boobs?" :o\
What do you think? I'm especially interested in hearing what the guys have to say....do you go after big boobed girls just for the boobs, or because of the whole package???
I posted a link to my picture on myspace, but Im not sure if everyone will be able to access it. My profile is on "public" so it should work. But if not, then......I'm 23, Persian, 5'1", I workout, so I have a nice figure, pretty smile, big brown eyes, long lashes, and long black hair....and oh, natural 36/38D boobs.

http://home.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user&MyToken=3efd3022-2e38-4ac2-ae65-35df378eae59

oh, and im not dumb or anything....i graduated from college last year with a degree in political science and another in criminolgy. And I just applied to law school!

Answer 1

YES

Answer 2

Physical appearance is the reason I would initiate contact with somebody, and once I talk to a girl the 'whole package' is what keeps me interested. A nice body (and there is nothing wrong with large boobs, but that is not the only thing that works) and a cute face is a big reason to strike up a conversation.

Would physical appearance alone keep me interested? For awhile, yes (10 minutes maybe), after that it is not enough: Now you have to be sweet, funny, smart, cool, attentive, .., pretty much everything that I'm looking for. And even if it is purely a physical attraction thing, which does happen, the girl has to know how to use that body, not just looking good.

Anyway, this is just my $0.05 and I am not going to say that all guys are the same.

BTW, your link did not work, but it might be because I don't know how to use mySpace with just a link (instead of name)...

Answer 3

Some guys may be into the boob thing but since I am not (other parts speak to me) I always try to look at other things first, pretty smile, big brown eyes and long black hair are three very good things to start with until I get to know you and enjoy your being smart and personable too

Answer 4

I think it depends on the guy, of course there are guys who only talk to you because for yourboobs, the same way some talk to other girls just because of their pretty face or their great whatever. It's actualy a matter of guy's hopes about a girl and not your chest size. You said that you have a great personality and that's probably the reason why most of them flirt with you. If you had Pamela Anderson chest and no attitude at all, you wouldn't have boys around you, since attitude is much more important to them even if media have made us think that it's our body.

Answer 5

I'm attractive (sounds conceited...but I'm not) tall, slender and very big busted, too. A lot of guys flirt with me simply because of my looks. I strongly believe that some guys look upon me as being a "quick lay" whereas, some guys would really like to get to know me and start a serious relationship (I'm married though).

I'm not dumb either, I graduated from college with a Bachelor's degree in Mortuary Sciences (3.75 gpa...now I'm getting conceited) . My husband and I own 2 funeral homes and I actually have guys hit on me while planning funeral services for their wives or mothers.(Which I think is extremely disgusting. However, I have to maintain my composure at all times)

So, you really have to weigh it out. If a guy is too quick to jump in the bed...it's the boobs. If he really wants to get to know you....it''s the whole package.

Answer 6

If a guy doesn't know you at all and he starts to flirt with you, then yes, he's attracted to your big boobs.

If a guy that knows your personality somewhat and flirts with you, they like you for who you are mentally.

I personally look at the whole package. If a girl has big boobs but is an unsavory person, I don't like her. If she has a nice personality regardless of breast size, I like her.

Answer 7

You'd be surprised how many men, attracted to beautiful women, actually get stunned and tongue-tied, even afraid to talk with you. Of course breasts attract guys -- but you're right, they're just wrapping paper on your whole package.

Only your true character will keep the right man by your side. So develop your interests, your caring for others, your judgment, your tolerance. I think it was Rumi who said, "The heart sees more clearly than the eye."

Answer 8

I think this is exactly what you want. If by chance I'm wrong stuff them babies in a sports bra, that'll mush them, then garner a nice sports out fit and train to run. You'll meet lots of men enjoying running, and a shared goal of a good time marker at the race! If you dare! But I bet your too into your bobs.

Answer 9

i, personally, do not go after boob size. the rest of the "package is more important". being that you are 23 and have two degrees and applying for law school is very impressive. good luck in law school.

Answer 10

Who cares if they like you cus of your big boobs? You have to attract the opposite sex somehow. Keep them interested with your sharp intellect and the good ones will stay around and still like your big boobs. If I had a trick to attract the opposite sex like big boobs I would exploit the heck out of it. USE YOUR BOOBS!!!

Answer 11

For Me The Whole Package, flirting/talking/looking you up and down ,put you on hot-list.