If you are just going to put them in day care for 10 hours a day when they are just 6 weeks old??
2007-06-28 05:54:38 · 22 answers · asked by M 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
To perpetrate the species???
As if there aren't already enough people on this earth already.
I can't see why people want to have children at all. It is selfish to put the child in daycare all day and let someone else raise them.
The children will not respect the parents in the long run.
If someone doesn't have the patience to stay home with the kid, than they put it off on someone else to stay with their child?
I have yet to hear a good reason to have children in this day and age.....maybe if someone needed the kid's kidney or plasma.
2007-06-28 06:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 9⤋
Well, there are some parents who have to go out to work due to finances. You can't fault that.
There are others who lie down but don't want to deal with the consequences, or think a baby would be a nice novelty until they realise the work that goes into it.
My partners 19yr old sister does that. She doesn't work but somehow gets the state to pay for childcare so she can sit on her backside all day and do nothing.
Mind you it's better for her 2yr old child because at day care, she gets attention, love and someone to play with rather than being shouted at and put to bed at 5pm with the tv!
2007-06-28 06:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine Wheel 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Whats the point of having freedom in this country if there are all these laws saying you cant do this and you cant do that....
You want kids you have them, you still have to go to work to support them dont you? With the economy going to hell in a handbasket, most people cant have someone stay home to raise the kids...There is a point to it...having and raising kids that you love and teaching them responsiblitity ...just because you have to put them in day care doesnt mean you dont spend time with them or care about them. Its just a harsh reality that you have to work your tail off just to have a child in your life to love these days.
2007-06-28 06:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by mel 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2017-01-01 09:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by joto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not work and never used daycare, but really most do have to work and if I did, I'd have still had several kids! Life is lonely without them and there are women who can juggle careers and family! I do not think I could work, but if I had to I would!!! A mother loves her kids even in the time spent away and as long as a child has loving parents, it just works!! If not the population would go down to nothing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-28 06:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by whoa,3boys! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most experts agree that it is not the quantity of time but the quality. Sometimes people have to put children in daycare not by choice but by necessity. Sometimes for their sanity. Its really not our place to judge just support. They say it takes a village....
2007-06-28 06:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a point to having kids? Do you need a point? People have children because they want to have children and people love and care for them because they want to. In order to provide for them, you have to work and that means day care. In these days in order to provide a future day cares play a role. That is where quality time comes in. Spend your time wisely with your kids. So if no one had kids based on your theory, then you may not have ever been born yourself.
2007-06-28 06:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by Going Crazy 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Ouch...I however am a stay at home mom and am with my kids almost 24/7. I had them because I love children.
2007-06-28 06:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love my kids, but I'm a better mom to them working than staying at home. I am not a good stay at home mom because I don't have the patience for it. Just because I use daycare doesn't make me a bad parent. And some people don't have a choice financially.
2007-06-28 06:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by Rene 4 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Well, it isn't like you are having your child and giving them away. Some people have a hard time staying home with their children for many reasons. But don't you think women deserve to be able to get out of the house?
2007-06-28 06:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
So basically you're saying that only rich people can have kids because they can afford to be stay-at-home parents?
Personally, I'd rather put my kids in daycare than to keep having one baby after another, hoping to collect more and more "benefits" from the federal government (like certain groups of people do).
2007-06-28 08:54:12 · answer #11 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋