when a boyfriend doesnt call you and you dont see him for a long timedoes that mean the relationship is over?

Question

i havent seen mine for a while and he hasnt called me and i havent called him does that end the relationship

Answer 1

The only way you will find the answer is by talking to him.

Answer 2

I would have to ask how long it has been since you two have talked or seen eachother. You should call him and find out whats going on. Leave him a message if he doesn't pick up. If he still doesn't call back, the message is clear: hes not into you, and hes too much of a coward to tell you to your face. If this is the way it ends up, I'm sorry to hear it. There is no worse feeling than losing someone you had feelings for, especially when they disappear on you. In this case I think no answer is your answer, and hes gone, but just remember, he wasn't good enough for you anyways! So don't waste your time trying to figure out why he stopped calling. Its may be painful but find closure on your own and find someone worthy of you.

Answer 3

He doesn't want to see you or talk to you. If you figure out why, the answer may disappoint you. In most cases it doesn't mean that he is sick, tired, busy or dead. He may want to end the relationship, he may be scared of he may be dating another girl.

You can call or e-mail him and ask directly, but do this only once.

And yeah, there may be curtain calls, he may be coming back, but from now on your relationship will be different. Think about whether YOU want to see him now.

Answer 4

Kind of sounds like it. Sorry. Most guys unless they r in jail dead or abducted by aliens usually keeps in good contact with a girl that he is really interested in. But I would still call him so he can tell me to hit the road jack if he thinks it is necessary. He has no right just to leave U hanging.

Answer 5

In a word....probably. Have you tried calling him? How long did you go out with him for in the first place? How was your relationship last time you were together? Frankly unless you are particularly romantically inclined to this guy, find yourself another one. there are plenty out there. Good Luck :)

Answer 6

no only words end a relationship,but it seems he is either really super busy or just doesn't care,I would die before i called him first! Let him be the one to do the calling,that way atleast you know if he cares or not and if he doesn't with in a certain lengh of time,kick his butt to da curb girl cause you can do better!

Answer 7

I guess you'll only know if you ask him, right? Can you handle the truth? If you can, go for it. Just don't be whiny and cry.

Or you could opt out and do nothing and move on... when he decides to call - if he decides to call - you just say, "well, I never heard from you, so I thought we were done..." - at least that way you don't look desperate and needy.

Answer 8

if he does not communicate for two weeks maybe he is busy, if he does not communicate for a month try to contact him and ask what happen, if he does not respond try to inquire some close friends or relatives. if he does not correspond for three months or more ..forget him he is not interested with you anymore but if he comes back and search for you , try to listen to his story and whatever comes between the reunion be open minded and make a choice its either you go forward or you move on. follow your heart.

Answer 9

I hate it when this happens, but just call him and check everythings okay. Its the only way, and if anythings up you can sort it out x

Answer 10

You should have called him
Maybe he thinks the same thing.
Call him and find out.

Good answer, I second that.