I dress more on the boyish side and I think boys are intimadated..... I can totaly be girl I just dont like to show it I love sports and I'm really strong..............I need help with boys and how I dress
2007-06-28 02:52:22 · 14 answers · asked by C Mattiola12 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was the same way, in sixth grade and under, all i did was wear boy shorts and a t-shirt everyday, Im also a big sports person and everything, but as i got to realize in middle school is that everyone is going to judge you no matter how you look, i mean thats middle school, for me. And in 7th grade i started to get annoyed because the same thing happened to me i thought the boys were intimidated like id be in gym and they always were like watch out, shes here and blah blah blah and they always made comments about how i dressed and i no people say dont worry about what other people think and i didnt but soon i realize that i cant stay like this forever, i mean i still do sports and im the best runner in my school and people know me for many sports but instead of saying things about how i dress they say things about how great i do in sports and stuff, and now i wear like, collared shirts (and tshirts from my sports teams) and jeanz and short shorts (not like really short just like between my knee and top of my leg. So my advise to you is to be yourself but maybe if you want them to be interested in you than still hang out with them and do sports, trust me some guys are into the preppy girls but many of them are into the sporty ones who arent afraid to get down and dirty and maybe about your dress issue, maybe start wearing like jeanz and capres and shorts (girls) and a few nice shirts but still keep the tshirts and "tomboy" look in play you dont want to change your identidy for guys just be yourself.
2007-06-28 03:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by bluedolfinswimmer13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats more important to you dressing like a boy or getting a boy. You decide. there is no right and wrong way to deal with this. if a guy really wants you then dressing like a guy will not stop him. Then you can also dress like a girl and still be involved in your sporting activities. Whatever you do you should be comfortable. Alllright!
2007-06-28 10:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by KIZZY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way! I LOVE sports and I wear my Cubbies jerseys or loose t-shirts. I feel a little uncomfortable when I dress up but guys do pay attention when I do. I suggest that you dress more like a girl and it doesn't have to be all the time, but a couple times a week. Good luck!
2007-06-28 09:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Gorda666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with Kizzy on this one - what's more important to you, dressing like a boy, or attracting one? While it's true that it's quite possible somebody will come to like you despite the clothing, men are very visual creatures, and usually men who are attracted to people that dress like men, are gay men. If you want to attract a straight guy who likes girls, it stands to reason that you'll need to look like a girl.
I'm not saying you should change who you are for a boy, but think of it like an interview. You wouldn't go in for a job wearing sweat pants, you'd dress appropriately. Dating is no different. If you want to succeed, sometimes you need to put on a different outfit.
2007-06-29 06:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Veno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ashlee....u need to 2b careful, comments like that dont come without consequences - karma
Cassidy....dress how u feel comfortable, i believe its when u are confident and when u r happy with who u r that people will become attracted to you....if u want to change the way u dress for yourself why dont u jus going shopping and only pick up things u like but wouldn't normal go for
2007-06-28 10:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by staytruebegood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys/Men are very visual, they like girls to look feminine. You don't say how old you are but if you are at least 14 try a little lip gloss and a bit of makeup. Jewlery and perfume can help and doing your nails. Try wearing clothes that are more girlish, even sporty clothes can be feminine.
2007-06-28 09:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear more fitted clothes. They don't have to be tight or uncomfortable or prissy. Just something to show that you have a shape. Where do you shop?
What's your attitude and personality like? If you are really competitive and forward, guys might be intimidated by that.
2007-06-28 09:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by Danielle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i know how you feel. that's so me! i play with more boy's then girls, but one thing is different, i get boy's now and then. try getting a conversation with a boy, maybe it's that they don't seem to know you too much. you can try to dress different, but, i mean, it's not you. be yourself. you ought to get someone sooner or later. if i were a boy, i would go out with you and give you a chance, but I'm not. just remember, there's someone out there made for you, and i bet you don't know it! someone likes you, but they just don't want you to know it, they would get teased. this boy that used to like me, he stopped because he got teased. it was sad, i liked him too! :( well, good luck and let you best self shine! :)
2007-06-28 09:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by Merry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about trying to be more feminine. Wear a skirt and nice heels. Try a little makeup. You'd be surprised what a diffence that could make.
2007-06-28 13:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if guys only like you for how u dress, they dont like you that much do they? some guy is gunna want a girl hu's into sports just try to find that guy...... if all else fails...mini skirt...lol
2007-06-28 09:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋