I was set up on a blind date by a colleague; my number was passed on to this Scottish guy who is twenty & so am I. He had me on my knees when he phoned me to arrange a time, I loved his Scottish accent.
He called me to this fancy restaurant and picked me up. He played low romantic tunes on the way while talking to me.
Opened the doors, even let me order for him too. He listened to me all night and made good eye contact. I was taken back by his style and not to mention he was 6’2, light skinned, good features, slim and wore his hair real nice, had good jokes too…dropped a tip of £50 to the waiter.
He bought me a fine wine bottle to take home with me and a cake, walked me to the door step and hugged me. I just so wanted to grab & kiss him but I think he was the “take your time” type.
Its been two nights and he still has not phoned me or texted me, is this normal, do you think I let his one slip?
What would you rate this blind date out of 10 people?
2007-06-28 02:34:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He prob. just doesn't want to seem to eager so he's giving you some time. Either that or he isn't interested for whatever reason and he was just enough of a gentleman to continue the date the right way and now he's just hoping you'll get the hint. Maybe ask your friend and see if he told them anything.
2007-06-28 02:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by urstruly8604 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...
If everything went well as you say you did, why not call him up and chat. You dont have to imply why he hasnt called or set up another date. Just call as a friend and see how he is doing. If your comfortable, just mention that you had fun on the date and you really enjoyed the evening and see where that takes you. If he isnt as talkative about it or doesnt mention anything about going out soon, maybe he isnt interested on a romantic level. It sucks to connect with someone and have them not reciprocate the feeling back, but remember it was a blind date, which is a date to get to know someone new. Look at it this way, you had a great time with a nice guy which proves their are still gentleman out there.
Dont be sad, you win some you lose some!!
2007-06-28 02:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did he score you? I always asked at the end of a first blind date for an honest assessment. That way I would know for sure. I think a blind date is entitled to it. One time she said I was terrific, and I lost her phone number, never did meet up again.
2007-06-28 02:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's a lovely date. Can you contact him? I think the phone calls both ways =) If he isn't interested, at least you'd know. It was one date... How can someone slip away after only one date? If you threw yourself at him on your first date, He may think you a little strange (I know I would). Since it has only been 2 days, I'd wait a wee bit more before I have a meltdown. He may ask you out this weekend. And if he doesn't CALL HIM AND YOU ASK HIM OUT !!!!!!!
2007-06-28 02:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Chay Chay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow what a dream date that was. I'd rate it a 10 out of 10. Just give it time. He will call you.
2007-06-28 02:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Serengetti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did sound like a very nice guy. Maybe he's following that two day rule about not calling.
2007-06-28 02:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a call. Nothing wrong with that. And stop rating people. It's degrading.
2007-06-28 02:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by leaptad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he has the right number? he doesn't seem like one to just not call like that.
2007-06-28 02:37:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient
2007-06-28 02:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋