Okay, this guy and I went out to dinner 2 nights ago. The very next day he texted and asked me out again for tonight. Now I know the "golden rule" that guys have about not calling until 2 days later to not seem desperate. Im also not looking for a relationship even though we had a blast and he is a great guy.
My question to you is, do you think I should cancel the date beause he might be looking more into this than I am (considering he asked me on 2 dates in 2 days), or he's just trying to get some.
2007-06-28 02:04:41 · 5 answers · asked by maggie s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is trying to get some. if u r not out for him drop it, cancel th date n look for better things to do
2007-06-28 02:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by smart_eluh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the both of you had a blast he might be wanting to kick it with you more, its sometimes hard for a guy to find a cool female friend. If you look good it might cross his mind he want to get some, You cant be mad at him. Go out again with him and let him know, beat around the bush and ask him what is he looking for, then when its your turn to answer tell the truth. Get It Got It gOOD
2007-06-28 09:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether he 'gets some' is up to you, not him.
If you like him and want to go out, do it.
If you just cancel the date with a 'wash my hair' type of excuse, after having accepted it, you're the one playing games.
Just tell him straight out that you like him, like going out but don't want to get into anything serious. Then drop it and just have fun.
It doesn't have to be complicated if you are both truthful with each other.
2007-06-28 09:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by Lorenzo Steed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Golden Rule" come on...... If I like the gal I would have asked her out again right away. (not wait) and for the other stupid question, I would not take her out for just the other reason. If I do not think the gal is right, then I would not ask again. \ but then I have been out with other women who jump my bones first.
2007-06-28 09:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by my2centsworth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants some ***....so unless you are willing to do that...cancel it!! especially if you arent looking for a relationship right now..
2007-06-28 09:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋