i text this girl that i met last week at a club, for the first time. i texed how about another dance this Friday?, and she responded saying " Hey there! Would love to Friday but going out of town. Can i get a raincheck on that dance??. (do u think that she really wants to reschedule or its an excuse. What should i text her back, i don't want to be pushy.
2007-06-28 01:00:24 · 15 answers · asked by SuperCobra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say yes to the raincheck and see what happens. it may or may not be an excuse!
2007-06-28 01:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by Siroonig 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think she would've phrased the last line as a question, if it was just an excuse! She either wouldn't have written it, or would have said "Have to take a raincheck" or something... this way she's letting you know she's still up for it, and giving you an opportunity to suggest another time/place to catch up!
Go for it :)
If you don't want to be pushy, you could always leave the ball in her court. When you text back, say something like "No probs, let me know when you wanna catch up some other time. There's always the..." (insert some other event that's happening!) lol or just leave the last bit out...
hahah and maybe add a smiley. I like smilies lol. :)
2007-06-28 08:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by meegee_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this is the one thing most guys have a problem with: reading signs and interpreting them by thinking it's somehow your fault. If she doesn't really want a 'rain check' she shouldn't have said so; it's her fault if she lead you on, not yours, so we can drop that one like a hot potato for now.
Second, (and only if you're comfortable) ask her head-on if she really wants a rain check or if she's not interested. Most girls like the up-front attitude and think it's really refreshing.
If you're not comfortable with that, then you have to resort to try to reschedule. If she gives a lame excuse or any other kind of excuse without at least meeting you halfway with rearranging the dance date yet again, then drop the subject and move on. If it's that's the kind of time you have to take to meet this girl somewhere, think of what it's gonna be like the rest of the time you would be dating her! But on the other hand, if you get a date up and running, you'd know for sure! I think we covered all bases here, huh? Hope this helped you!
2007-06-28 08:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by Valerie K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, dude dont sell your self short...she might really had to go outta town...and dont call a million times saying ...i no ur not goin anawhere ..i no u dont like me..trust me it getts annoying. So ask for another date...like in a week and 1/2... if she makes up an excuse then too ..maybe she isnt interested or just not the one for you ..good luck!
2007-06-28 08:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd definitely say she wants to reschedule, if she didn't want to she wouldn't have bothered texting back
Go for it, give it a week though, cause then you know she's back.
2007-06-28 08:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is an excuse, at least she's going to call you back. Give her a rain Check. Good Luck ⥠Julie
2007-06-28 08:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by dawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah she wants to reschedule!! she just has prior arrangements! text her back something like OK its your call you let me know when it suits? so the ball is in her court and she has to make the next date. If she doesnt then move on!!
2007-06-28 08:06:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a chance....ma-bey she really is out of town .If she was not interested she would have made up another excuse that was not so open to a later date.....Good Luck
2007-06-28 08:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♥Carla♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say cool, have a good time, get back to me on that! Then text her next Wednesday. If she blows you off again, then forget about it.
2007-06-28 08:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say it sounds like she wants to see yyou again, just txt back and say ok, txt me when you can reschedule as i would like to have another dance with you and then its up to her
2007-06-28 08:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by lilhails 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋