I do not usually dream but I've dreamed two dreams within 2 weeks, and one about a month ago, all resembling eachother!! On the first one, i was making out with my instructor whom i had a crash on for like two years. Somebody has told me he'd like me coz i've got the kind of body he generally likes but he was married so i didn't dare go near him. The second dream was with an old friend (a guy who liked me but got tired of waiting for me to break up with my then-boyfriend and had no interest in me whatsoever when i actually broke up with him :>) and since for some reason we were trying to make it a secret (he was married in my dream, although i'm the one who is actually married in real life) it was soooo enjoyable. After i woke up, i kept trying to go back to it and couldn't. Needless to say i don't get that kind of joy from making out with my husband however much i love him. And I love my husband. He's the best thing that ever happened to me. Last night, i had another dream of kissing somebody who i am not married to. This time a guy i have never even seen in real life but very hot looking. It breaks my heart to remember how crazy the feeling was to kiss him, how wonderful, how absolutely amazing!. It's like the first kiss on the first few days of falling in love. *sigh* I think i am having these dreams because i miss the feeling of falling in love and all that goes with it. And ofcourse because there is nothing interesting in my life anymore - i don't have a life :>. Could there be any other interpretation?!
2007-06-27 22:05:34 · 3 answers · asked by something_something 1 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
You actually sound like you have already interpreted your dream. Saying that your husband is the 'best' thing that has ever happened to you, I think, sounds more like a rationalization than fact, simply because if that were the case, your dreams would not be looking for this 'excitement'.
When we have something missing in our lives, our dreams usually represent it in a person whose face we cannot see. We can't see them because that aspect is 'missing'. Thus the 'hot' looking guy was hot in the sense of stimulating you physically and emotionally (breaking your heart to wake up from it.)
The dreams about the other two 'past' relationships are tied to the third, in the sense that, because they are over, it is 'safe' to explore what you want in them. It would be the same as having a disagreement with your boss, and after a week of frustration, dreaming about stabbing them in the back. The dream becomes a 'pressure' release for the pent up emotion.
It sounds like you initially started to feel something missing in your life/relationship and started exploring the feeling in the dream, with past/safe relationships. However, although they were 'pleasant', your mind realized that those relationships were ultimately over. Becoming thus frustrated, your mind hit upon the idea of creating this 'mystery' man, one who you do not have a definitive past with (and thus, no danger of being disappointed) and one who promises fulfillment in the future.
As a further note, it is possible that your husband could be the 'mystery' guy, but because he has not stepped-up-to-the-plate, so to speak, that is why you think you have never seen him before. If your husband truly is the best thing in your life, then he should be more than capable of becoming such a person, in which case the task then becomes communicating with him about what you need in your life. If that is not the case, then a closer examination (however painful) of your own life needs to be taken, but that is a decision best left to yourself. Good luck.
2007-06-27 22:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by Khnopff71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its said that dreams come from people sub conscious thoughts. Those thoughts that are always in the back of our mind, but we never really notice or think about them. Or sometimes its because we block them out. Maybe you just want to feel some sort of passion again because your married and such. Try another honeymoon :D
2007-06-27 22:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by laura20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate in studies...
2007-06-27 22:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋