My friend concerns me...any help??

Question

Basically im not joking here but my best friend is basically the town bike!!!!
Shes still only a teenager and her sexual partners is well into its double figures
I dont judge her on it or anything because shes still a really good friend to me and we have a good time together
But all she ever seems to be doing is having sex!!
I mean obviosuly theres nothing wrong with that but when its a different man all the time it worries me.
She doesnt even have sex in houses either its always parks or toilets, i mean ok weve all done it, but its everytime with her.
Should i say anything to her??

Yes she does always use a condom, and the times she hasnt shes gone and ot the morning after pill, she did have an abortion a few years ago but this still didnt stop her!!
She just doesnt realise that everyone thinks of her as a 'slag', i hate to say it but they do...she even gout caught having sex in school, but she still carries on to this day.

Answer 1

yes your a friend tell her shes behaving like a sl ut sounds like shes confusing sex with love

Answer 2

The socially accepted term used to be Nymphomaniac , now it is as you say bike or S-L-A- G.
Its probably caused by low self es stem she thinks all these Boys ( I take it it is just Boys and Men not women or animals etc ).
She probably has a sub clinical depression , if you can get her off the job get her along to the doctors , If not sell tickets , after all you have been a good friend there s no reason you shouldn't make some money out of it , no doubt she is

Answer 3

Many women who feel the need to seek out sexual 'approval' and attention from many men are victims of childhood sexual abuse.

Also, there are types who prey on others... personal conquests to determine their own self worth.

Either way, it's not healthy. One day she could end up dead because she went with the wrong man. She's gambling with her life.

If this is ok with you, do nothing. If it is not ok with you, you must tell her of your concerns. It is her choice, but you should at least say something to her about how you feel about her wreckless, dangerous behavior. Sex in toilets? YUK!

Are you sure she isn't abusing drugs??

Answer 4

you might want to mention to her that you have heard alot about her "activities" from others and that it's not giving her a good reputation. encourage her to tone it down or be more subtle about it. maybe ask why she jumps from person to person... long term byfrnds are great for having sex with and not getting a bad rep from- unless he's a dog too lol
just let her know you care and she should too. i hope she's on birth control and using condoms if she's got that many notches in her lipstick case!

Answer 5

I think you should tell her you're worried about her health/well being. Don't tell her she needs to change b/c she's not tryin to hear that from u...just be like it's fun while it lasts, but its not worth it if she gets an STD, AIDS, or a baby outta it. Let her know u care about her and u wanna help.

Answer 6

tread carefully but yes if she is a good friend let her know how you are feeling.hope she is having safe sex if not try talking to her about this she may not change what she is doing but try to encourage her to do it safely she may listen if she is a good friend just don't go in guns blazing good luck

Answer 7

town bike literally, lads are just using her as they know shes easy if she doesnt want to change i dont think she will , but its sad it must be the only way she gets attention !

Answer 8

Good girl - whats the name of the park??

Answer 9

No. Wait until she ends up with some sort of disease and then let her discuss it with you. You don't want to be calling her a whore now do you?

Answer 10

Er can I have her number.