I like this girl and but she lives in a different place than i do. We've talk on the phone but we havent met in person yet. Is it ok if i like her and want to be with her even though we live far away from each other?I want to tell her how i feel but i dont know if i should. I only live 4 hrs away from her. Do u think we'll ever meet?
2007-06-27 20:23:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're both into it and both want something to happen, there shouldn't be anything wrong with it. I believe that long distance relationships can work and 4 hours really isn't that far. And since you do live away from each other you should tell her how you feel, because at least you know you won't see her when you go to the grocery or something like that.
2007-07-05 14:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by answergirl03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four hours isn't much to me. But if it is to you, then its a problem. You should try to make arrangements to meet half way, maybe, depends on your ages. I have a feeling that if going four hours away is hard for you, you aren't adults yet.
As far as calling it a relationship, well, technically it is relations with some one but not on a realistic level. Would you keep up the talking if you were in person? That is what dating is for, to get to know them on a day to day basis. So I would call it a definite interest but no commitment yet.
Start by making plans to visit one another and go from there.
2007-06-28 03:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by socalmal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u haven't even met before, then I wouldnt get too worked up about this girl. And I wouldn't waste your time with a long distance realationship if you live that far away. You're gunna want to actually be WITH someone...it's not gunna last long
2007-06-28 03:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Four hours away really isn't that far. You didn't mention how old you are though. I think it's ok if you want to tell her those things. It is quite reasonable to think that you might at some point because it really isn't that far. Good Luck!
2007-06-28 03:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been in a distance relationship for an year and 5 months...my bf lives in Europe, so 4 hours is nothing...
if you really like her, i'd say u go for it....im not saying is easy, but it has its rewards:)
good luck
2007-06-28 03:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Shelby_ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Distance relationships are fine and really u should tell her how u fell she could fell the same and that could be the start of something new. Yeah y'all will eventually meet.
2007-06-28 03:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by Kai 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your willing to make it work, then yes it CAN work. You can meet whenever you want to but both of you should have a freind with you.
2007-06-28 03:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It works for some and not for others. You just have to give it a try. Good luck buddy!!
2007-06-28 03:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Love 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sorry to say but they usually never work out.
But only time can tell.
2007-06-28 03:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you really like her you will
2007-07-05 17:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋