How do you flirt?

Question

I was thinking about asking how to approach I guy that I like, but after looking over some of the other answered questions, I decided that the better question would be how to flirt. I am terribly shy around guys, so any help would be appreciated!

Answer 1

give him compliments and see how he respondes. If there is chemistry you should be able to feed off each other

Answer 2

1. Attitude: If you don't have it, you can't flaunt it. The best flirts are risk takers with an unshakeable confidence.

2. Humor: A must-have. One of the core elements of a relationship is the ability to make the other person laugh; be it "at" or "with" you.

3. Believability: You have to believe you're a great catch or no one else will. Period. If you don't think you're worth it, you've lost the game before it's begun.

4. Assertiveness: Approach someone and start a conversation. And no, you do not have to be a male to make the first move. Welcome to the 21st century.

5. Accessorize: Not with jewelry and matching shoes, but with conversation starters like dogs, a good book, or a signature scent that's bound to attract attention.

6. Approachability: Nobody likes an ice-queen, or king for that matter. Force yourself to let your guard down and you'll make yourself more approachable.

7. Eye Contact: Don't stare the other person down; simply give them the attention and respect they deserve. BONUS: Direct eye contact also shows confidence!

8. Have Fun: Nothing says "comfortable" like a person who is willing to "let down their hair" and be spontaneous and goofy. It goes back to that humor thing!

9. Sincerity: If they are truly interested in you, they will want you to feel comfortable being the "real you." Don't be afraid to show a little vulnerability.

10. Smile: Not only does it show you're enjoying their company, it's contagious, and it makes you one hundred times more attractive and approachable!

Answer 3

Here are nine steps to approach a guy you like, and flirt with him. Enjoy!

Step One: Start by working on your self-esteem. The underlying key to all flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that makes others want to get to know you.

Step Two:Smile, smile, smile.

Step Three:Think playful thoughts when gearing up to flirt. Flirts are fun and engaging, and they love to play with others.

Step Four: Compliment a stranger or acquaintance on his or her clothes, eyes, smile or sense of humor for starters.

Step Five:Keep your body language open and inviting: make eye contact, lightly touch the person's hand or arm when telling a story, toss your head back when you laugh.

Step Six: Initiate stimulating conversation. At a loss for words? Ask open-ended questions about the flirtee's job, hometown, family, recent movies seen, or thoughts about a painting on the wall.

Step Seven: Open up about yourself, giving someone even more reason to like you. But don't go on and on - the goal is to engage and intrigue, not bore.
Step EightGauge the person's interest carefully. If you sense a flashing red light - or worse, smug ridicule - make your exit graciously, and immediately. You've got nicer people to meet.

Step Nine: Progress in your flirtation, paying attention to cues from the object of your interest. If you perceive a sensual or sexual connection, make a bold move - ask for a date.

Tips & Warnings

Avoid negative body language such as crossing your arms, scowling, appearing overly stressed, looking downward or walking in a hurry when you don't really need to.

Give yourself time to learn what types of conversation starters work for you. Practice flirting whenever you can - at the grocery store or Laundromat, or with your friends.

Answer 4

Well just talking to a guy helps, the fact that you've approached him will probably already be a step in the right direction, after talking to him asking if he's got a girlfriend and stuff like that, and if he says no saying things like "oh im surprised! or, act surprised and be like "Why not!" little stuff like that.
little things just start to tip them off and they realize hey! :)

Don't know if thats any help or horrible advice, i know it's better than the first guy!

Answer 5

haha its not all that hard from girl to guy, go to him look at him like with a horny look grab him and kiss him, the rest should be easy but i understand it will be hard for you to do but if you do you will learn how simple it is, but after that you will have a slut girl reputation, everything has its pro's and con's thats the easy way, the tougher way is going up to him hi im ______ and just start talking and eventually the rest will just flow, but it isnt asured anything the first choice is easier and is assured atleast something with him, but then again he will think of you as just a booty call which means it wont last, i leave it up to you

Answer 6

talk cute with him, tell him you like his Cologne. say he looks like someone famous, a few nudges or lil touches on the hand here an there, play with your hair ,make eye contact. kinda look at him or check him out from across the room and then turn away when he looks at you. do this stuff but not all at once and don't be too obvious how bad you want him ..that will scare him away!!!

Answer 7

there are A LOT of techniques on flirting. It pretty much depends on your personality, and what you are comfortable doing. Try conversation and eye contact from across the room or courtyard or whatever. Don't be stalkerish though. Major turn-off.

Answer 8

Easy, Play with their hair, look into their eyes, touch their shoulder when you talk to them. Trust me I'm naturally a flirty person.
And also if they are a huggable person hug away. but if they dont really like to be touched.just be careful at how much you flirt!

Answer 9

I like it when a girl smiles at me, jokes around with me, laughs at my jokes, and I particularly like it when she touches me. For example, she says something about my ring or watch and softly grabs my hand or arm to look at it, or if she playfully pushes or slaps me for making fun of her, or straightens up my hair or tie. A lot of eye contact is important too. I like it when a girl notices my cologne, says I smell good, and leans in and smells my neck.

Answer 10

what catches any guy is a girl who looks at them directly in the eyes and has a nice smile on her face.

that works all the time!

it shows you have confidence and is an invitation for him to make the next move...not you. you would have done your job!

simple, yet it takes practice, but in time, you'll get it!
start practicing!

:) aloha!

Answer 11

im really shy around guys too. your not alone. just stare at them...smile. play with your hair. do something...as long as it doesnt cross the line between flirty and sluty.

hope i helped!!! <3