hey. okay so this guy and his friends made a bet that if one of them danced with me at a party, the other would buy him hs favorite food. Let's just say...the one dancing is Kyle (he and i were close friends) and the one who made the bet is Josh and the other friend is Chris (who is also my really close friend). Some background info...ive pretty much had a crush on Kyle all year and I got over him the day before the party. So naturally when he danced with me I wanted to know why because it was out of the blue.
Chris is also my friend too, so I asked chris why he danced with me, and then I found out about the bet. I was so upset and insulted... so i left him a message on aim that basically told him i knew...it wasnt really mean..but then he blocked me. =( im just so hurt...i still talk to chris but i dont want to talk about it with him anymore and i dont think he wants to hear about it anymore...i have more than one screen name so in about a month, i was thinking of sending him an a
2007-06-27 16:08:23 · 13 answers · asked by ooh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
an apology letter...and hope that he forgives me.
I didn't even do anything wrong so i don't exactly know what im apologizing for...but i really dont want to lose him as a friend =(
i kinda think its crazy to still want to be friends with someone who wronged me...do you think it is??
and do you think he'll forgive me?
thanks
2007-06-27 16:10:35 · update #1
..also..its really hard to forget him...because ive been trying to get over him since december and i had...until this happened... i know hes such a jerk but there are good things about him too...
idk...
i just don't know =/
2007-06-27 16:16:25 · update #2
we're supposed to be friends...
i just don't know why he'd do this..
2007-06-27 16:18:05 · update #3
also, its summer so i dont see him everyday like at school and if i call him hell probably hang up on me =(
2007-06-27 16:19:05 · update #4
should i apologize sooner rather than later? would it be irrelevant if i waited too long?
2007-06-28 11:38:54 · update #5
you dont really have to 'grow up' if your young.. its part of being a kid...
he should forgive you.. he got mad over somthing syupid.. i feel bad that they did that to you.. just CALL him and tell him how you felt and that your over it[which i think you are, right] and that you wanna be friends again and forget it all
hope everything is better soon =]
2007-06-27 16:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by beautifully broken 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG getting blocked is the worst. I hate that. Anyway I think your going to have to let this one go. I'm not sure he was your friend to begin with. Sometimes the hardest friendships to let go are the ones that were more then friends. I don't think apologize are in order but if both of you just start talking again I don't see why that wouldn't work. Either way don't push it. That will only make things worse.
2007-06-27 16:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by AIRDOGG13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Instant messaging is the easy way out of trying to repair a problem. If you really want him to forgive you, what you should do is tell him what you think to his face. It shows that you are sincere in your apology and he will have a lot more respect for you because he knows how hard it is to do something like that. So I say just talk to him about the situation in person and hope for the best!
2007-06-27 16:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by Tyler B 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
first, YOU are owed the apology not the guys. second, you need to hang out with a better class of people
2007-07-05 10:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought this was a place to ask questions, not write novels, or short stories.
2007-07-05 16:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the bet was wrong and the AIM message wasn't mean so you shouldn't send him an apology letter
just call him and ask him why he did it and that you forgive him
2007-06-27 16:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by Edith 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
stop obsessing and get over it, guys do stupid junk all the time, who cares? they're gonna keep doing it too. if the guy dosent want you in his life, then so be it.
2007-07-05 14:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by Volleyball Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF I WERE YOU I WOULD FORGET ABOUT BOTH OF THEM RIGHT AFTER I TOLD THEM TO KISS MY *** FOR MAKING ME BE ONE OF THEIR CHILDISH BETS....
BOUNCIN OUT~*
2007-07-05 14:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by beckybounce226 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone in this situation needs to grow up
2007-06-27 16:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by ur_hacked03 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He could be sorry.both of u say sorry to each other
2007-06-27 16:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋