actually I will be 40 in a few months. I know alot of people think its wack or whatever, but once you lose it you become like all so i want it to be special. So now, i decidd to do it this weekend. I actually want it to be wild and crazy but my mom wants me to go easy. what should i do?
2007-06-27 13:29:35 · 47 answers · asked by VerseUni 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
be rough. she needs to know who the man is!
2007-06-27 13:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, if you're 40 years old, stop listening to your mom's advice. Follow your own, fully-grown adult brain.
Secondly, don't "plan" on having sex without a reason (or a particular individual that you care about). Don't go looking for it; that's pathetic. Instead, accept the people around you, and, should you find a good connection with somebody you know and trust, do whatever you both feel comfortable with.
2007-06-27 13:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by jtrusnik 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get married first. Since you have kept yourself pure all these years you should continue till you find the right mate to share your love with. This is God's way. Don't cheapen a wonderful God given gift like sex by commiting fornication. May God grant youm the wisdom to make the correct and righteous choice Cap'nArlo
2007-06-27 13:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You decided to do what? To celebrate your virginity or come out of that. What is so great about that? You are aging fast and why not get married and enjoy whatever left of your life. Nature has given you some pleasures. Be happy with that.
2007-06-27 13:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by rajan l 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie...40 Years Old Virgin....lol
2007-06-27 13:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by Arzuita 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry Dude but if you are actually a 40 year old virgin and you haven't figured it out by now...whatever..can anyone really be this slow..sorry but really it is organic and a natural part of life which shouldn't take you to middle life to figure out unless you have some serious issues, in which case I would recommend professional help.
2007-06-27 13:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Fluffy Wisdom 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You have gone this far without ruining it , why do it now ? I truely wish I could go back in time and save myself for my wife . Your wife or husband should be the one you choose to do this with . Wild and crazy ain't all it's cracked up to be either .
2007-06-27 13:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mopar Man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If youve waited this long, (and I think its a good thing) then you should find the right one before you do anything with someone you dont care for. It should mean something to the other person as well.
But who am I to tell you, because you know all of this already.
2007-06-27 13:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Chrissy WB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh wow, just like the movie. Don't worry I think it is special and you are special. And yes listen to your mother. Good luck.
2007-06-27 13:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
40 year old virgin? If anyone believes that they have to be out of their mind. You couldn't find a women 14 that was a virgin.
Someone said if we needed a virgin girl to throw into a volcano to stop it we couldn't find one in todays society.
2007-06-27 13:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by Steven 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Remain a virgin.
2007-06-27 13:39:52 · answer #11 · answered by His eyes are like flames 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋