im so sick of everything! there is now way to make me feel better no matte what i do... this is the lowerst that i have ever been and i just dont know what to do with myselfe anymore. What the hell should i do. Im about to just end everything now! nuthing mattters anymore. I dont want to hear from anyone who doesnt have anything good to say. will somone just please give me somthing to hold on to? i just need to hear somthing good right now before i do somthing stupid.
2007-06-27 09:49:22 · 14 answers · asked by keesha 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
oh honey,...please,....don't do anything bad right now...there is nothing worse than feeling so low, and so worthless in this world...who is making this girl feel so bad? Sweetheart..don't let satan do this to you...do you know how much you would hurt your Father in Heaven,..who has a plan for you...if you did something that you could not take back? Jesus died so that you can live...and They both love you soooo much...look around you, and try to count your blessings sweetie...I bet that if you start trying to think about all the good things you have in your life, you will feel better...sweetie, you ARE worth it, and sometimes, we ALL go through this same thing, and we never think we will make it through..but I always pray, to the Lord, through Jesus, to help me, and to lift me up again...and They will hear your answers...now you little bug, you...God loves you, Jesus loves you, and I love you too xxxxxxx
2007-06-27 10:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, um, last thing I want to do now is say the wrong or most obvious thing, but you really do have more to live for than you think right now. I speak from experience when I say that I currently have depression and have had it for over 10 years. I am currently on medication and you would be absolutely amazed at what it can do. No, I hate being on meds and I wish I didn't have to be, but you gotta do what you gotta do to feel better.
I also speak from experience when I tell you I've had times where I've felt like you describe, but they are during a rough number of years for me and before I was medicated. It's hard, but like the old saying goes, "what doesn't kill you will make you stronger". I hnestly sometimes think God wants that to be my motto...but anyway. I could probably write a novel to you on my experiences but I'll refrain. I will say, though, that I look back now on those dark days and realize that I am so happy to still be alive. Yeah, at the time I didn't want to be, but things change, life changes, and now I'm happier than I could ever be... If I had done then what you are talking about now, I never would have had the opportunity to feel like this, and the people's lives that I've changed for the better...they never would have had the opportunity to know me.
If you need someone to talk to, send me a message. I'll try to help if I can.
2007-06-27 10:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Curious Jenna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sai Ram. Pronounced as Saayee Raam, it is a greeting, a mantra and also a blessing to you.U show the intellectual aspect of your psyche and your real need to know. Happiness is the only purpose of life,.I feel as if you are tired of life so i guess your question is how to get happiness? Search deep within and try to know who you are. Who is seeking the answer to the question? Who is that you? Find that real you behind all the layers that are heaped upon by society and its conditioning.
Believe in yourself
Be brave...but it's ok to be afraid sometimes
Study hard
Give lots of kisses
Laugh often
Don't be overly concerned with your weight, it's just a number
Always try to see the glass half full
Meet new people, even if they look different to you
Remain calm, even when it seems hopeless
Take lots of naps..
Be weird whenever you have the chance
Love your friends, no matter who they are
Don't waste food
RELAX
Take an occasional risk
Try to have a little fun each day.
...it's important
Work together as a team
Share a joke with friends
Fall in love with someone..
...and say "I love you" often
Express yourself creatively
Be conscious of your appearance
Always be up for surprises
Love someone with all of your heart
Share with friends
Watch your step
It will get better
There is always someone who loves you more than you
i found out the longer you sit there and feel bad about yourself, the longer your gonna feel depressed. You wonder why nobody cares, why nobody wants to be around you. The reason why nobody wants to be around you is because YOU ARE DEPRESSED. you bring them down when you come around. You git ti get up and fight your through it. The minute you get up and change your attitude about what's going on, the other stuff starts to change. whatever is kicking you and trying to push you down, i say kick it back. The first thing you got to do is open uo the curtains, put on some good music, take a shower, put on a good face, and open up the door and go out and see the world.Your sitting around hoping someine will fix it but, it's got to be fixed through you. You can't say "please, god help me." God is not gonnaa do anything if only try and help yourself to.Don't hold things back. Say it.Deal with that emotion
These are the same principles I go by for my own, and the same I am teaching everybody. Always look to the positive. There is a positive in every situation, even the bad ones. They are learning experiences. Look to how you handle a bad situation, and learn from how you acted, and see how you can turn the negative into a positive next time. Every situation helps us to evolve, so every situation is good. Life is not worth wasting any moment on depression. I did for far too long, and I'll never do it again! But I don't regret my past, it has made me who I am, and I have learned a great deal about life from the way
I used to be. You can overcome anything. Nothing can stop you from enjoying life.
ONLY YOU CAN STOP YOU FROM ENJOYING LIFE
2007-06-27 10:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by The REBELution! 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just by the number of responses, you know we care. That means something, doesn't it? Being in the dark place before, and talking with other young people, I always say, give yourself 24 hours. Then let go and let God. Say it out loud and try to find that inner peace. Get outside or into the country by yourself, give yourself a good cry. There was a manic depressive woman in my town, and oh my, was she suicidal. She called me and I told her this, and she really is fine today. Of course she has to stay on her meds, too. Drs. say there may be a chemical imbalance to cause this, also, so see a doctor and let us know 2mrw you are better!
2007-06-27 10:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by dawnUSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you are in a bad way. I want you to know that there are people who love you and there are people who can help you. Also try praying and leaving all you problems with God. You will feel like a new person. Put your trust in Him and find a church or a Christian friend to talk to. You are reaching out to on line answers people, so I know you want help and can accept help. I have lived for 65 years and in the past felt like you several times. Just know that you can get over whatever is troubling you. Good luck to you!!!
2007-06-27 09:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by oldknowitall 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I heard a quote that kind of explains the situation... "In life, there are two types of sufferers; those that suffer from a lack of life, and those that suffer from an abundance of life." Sounds like you're suffering from a lack of life. Get out there and do something. Go to a city near you and meet some people. Got to put yourself out there for things to happen. Maybe your waiting for something in life to come to you, but you need to get out and experience life... Part of life is wondering how it's going to end. Don't through away a gift you still have plenty of use to get out of. I'm going to leave you with a little story about a man. Hope that you get the right message from it.
A man that did everything on a routine for years, never varying from what he did was walking down the street. He wasn't a happy guy or a sad guy, he was just a guy walking down the street. All of a sudden an out of control car begins to run the man down. He ran a block down a street and finally got hit by the out of control car. When he got out of the hospital, he told his friend that as he was running down the street, he felt a rush of exhilaration that he hadn't felt in years. A rush, that finally, something was happening in his life.
2007-06-27 10:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 05:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doing something stupid would be just that....stupid. i think most of us have had a time in our lives where we are so confused and let down by everyone and everything that we consider "doing something stupid". i am not a very religious person, but i do believe....if are spiritual, talk to someone from church. get involved with volunteer work...it is very rewarding, and makes you feel good for helping. listen to upbeat music, read a great book, go for a walk, call a friend....just keep going, don't give in to any stupid ideas about hurting yourself.
best of luck girl...
2007-06-27 10:03:40 · answer #8 · answered by Cathy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes hitting rock bottom is the only way to move back up. When you realize you have nothing to loose, what's stopping you from doing what you've thought is the impossible? What have you always wanted? Go after it, now is the time.
2007-06-27 09:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by littlebossjojo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, suicide would be the ultimate stupidity. Nothing has a chance of getting better if you are dead.
While you live, there is always a chance that things will improve. I can tell you how to improve things if you really want to work at making things better.
2007-06-27 09:53:04 · answer #10 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋