Lately I have been having some very vivid dreams. In my dream, I was at work and for some reason they gave me a gift certificate to go to a spa and get pampered. They said I needed to get away. Well, as I was walking out of spa after my pampering to go check out at the front desk I hear a familiar voice of a good guy friend that I was never attracted to- Nick. I peered out and saw him standing with a dozen red roses and a tux on. He proposed and I freaked out. They put me in a wedding dress because the wedding was going to be right then. So the people at the spa helped me climb out the window as I was screaming "I don't like him like that- he is like a brother -stop forcing me to like him". Well- I escaped and ran away as far as I could and jumped over a fence.
Then I woke up in a panic. He is a friend of mine (we work at same company) I have never been attracted to but has liked me since we met. What does this mean?!
2007-06-27 09:35:15 · 8 answers · asked by Krislsu 2 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
Sometimes when a perfectly likable kind of fella has shown -in a public forum, like a job environment- that he has warm feelings for a single woman; she can not help but feel that her response to him is going to be scrutinized possibly critized, and such review can not be avoided.
It's not up to anyone else who you love and marry.
You may feel public pressure to accept or reject this friend as a mate while his feelings linger for you.
Don't feel you have to run from this, as your dream demonstrates. Let go of this frustration. You have the ability to cross this bridge when and IF you have to.
This dream should not reoccur, provided you decide that it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, particularly as concerns you and your FRIEND Nick.
Good luck and better dreams - J
2007-06-27 10:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by sagebella 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Deep down subconsciously you have this desire to be with Nike. Projecting him to dress up in a way like in a wedding shows you there is some rejection in you.
He may just be a symbol of the desire of close relationship you are currently looking for now. Regardless, this dream just means that you are pretty lonely for now.
2007-06-27 16:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have had thoughts of maybe dating him and have put them in the back of your mind because you are good friends with him and don't want to ruin that friendship by dating and things not working out. Then you would feel very awkward being near him.
Maybe you should loosen up some and see if he is the guy for you.
2007-07-01 15:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are living out in your dream a personal fear you have of liking your friend. If you work with someone who is a friend (that you do not like), but they like you. You have a naturally desire to bury those thoughts subconsciously. But you still have to deal with them every now and then. So, on occasion when you do have to deal with them, that's when a dream will come.
2007-06-28 03:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by super saiyan 3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you feel guilty because he likes you and you don't have the same feelings. So staying "friends" with him feels to you like leading him on... like he may have a chance down the road. Therefore he is not looking for someone else.
Just my gut reaction. Good luck
2007-06-27 16:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ya Ya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day why don't you get Nick into the stock
room and give him a great big kiss and say "happy
birthday" or something like that. Maybe, just
maybe it will light a fire. [here comes the bride]
2007-06-27 18:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may have stronger feeling for him then you think. You may not have 'love' feelings but you may care very deeply (like a brother) for him, more then you think. You may feel guillty if he has liked you and not dated anyone else. You may feel like its your fault deep down.
2007-06-27 16:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear wedding bells soon.
2007-06-27 16:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋