What do you feel is your best attribute when it comes to parenting and caring for your children?
2007-06-27 09:02:08 · 12 answers · asked by mroof! 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
While we're at it - What do you think is your worse attribute as well. :)
2007-06-27 09:02:30 · update #1
Best: Patience which I haven't had the whole time. When they were younger (and I was younger) I didn't have the patience I should have. Now that I've matured I have learned that patience makes things so much easier. I just try to remember being the same age.
Worst: On the occasions I DO lose my patience, I get loud. My dad was a hitter so I went out of my way not to. However, I ended up being a yeller. That, too, has gotten WAY better over time.
2007-06-27 09:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course my best attribute is love.
My second best attribute is patience and consistency with my boys. I make rules, and enforce them, and that's the way life is.
My worst attribute.... I dont know. I will have to think about that one.For right now I would have to say the fact that I am always scatter brained and can never remember what I am doing. But that's normal for a Mom of a three year old and a 9 month old.
2007-06-27 09:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is now grown, but the best thing I ever did for her is that I taught her to look at what a person is on the inside not on the out.
I guess the worst thing about my parenting skills were that more often than not I didn't take her side in things. I didn't want to have one of those only children where the parents think they never do anything wrong. I went over board in the other direction.
2007-06-27 09:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by Pearl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I try to understand where my kids are coming from. Like "Why does she keep throwing the same toy over and over again?" Answer is because she wants to see what happens, not because she wants to bug me (so I attach her toys to her stroller with linkadoos, she thinks they fall, I know better and they never touch the ground). "Why wont he take a nap?" (Because he's afraid he'll miss something and also doesnt want to be a baby)
My worst is when they just dont stop pushing, or do something they know is dangerous I do get irritated. My stepson is so used to getting his way with everything to the point that he'd rather fight you for half an hour than put on his shoe. Or when he ran around in the house then intentionally fell on his 8 month old sister to get attention...oh boy did he get attention!
My husband and I balance eachother out, though. He is the one frusterated when our daughter throws her toys, or his son wont take a nap, and I am the one frusterated when his son does something dangerous after being told not to.
I know its only a matter of time until our daughter tries similar things!
2007-06-27 09:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think my best attribute is how compassionate and understanding I am. I am really good with my son when he is sick or hurting in any way. I am let my son do pretty much anything he wants as long as it won't hurt himself or others. I am super affectionate, and I think that gives him good self esteem. I'm really good at teaching him about feelings and how to treat others. I think that this is the most important thing, I want my children to be good people. I don't want them to be predjudice, and I want them to be kind to themselves and others. I think my worst attribute is that I sometimes baby my son. His happiness means everything to me.
2007-06-27 15:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by Pregnant with Baby #2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i learned a long time ago that children are people too with different tastes, likes and dislikes, just like adults.....if we were all having spaghetti for dinner and one of them ( i have 3) didnt want it, i didnt necessarily cater to them but i did compromise....think about how many times youre not in the mood for something....they go through the same things....so i would say that my best attribute is that i listen to them...worst?...omigosh...i'm probably a little too easy on them...i never did spank as a form of punishment because i just couldnt bring myself to inflict pain on my child...so they usually got time out or restriction
2007-06-27 09:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by cookiesmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best-my daughter can talk to me about anything without fear of being judged or feeling like her opinions are silly. I validate her feelings and never tell her she is wrong for feeling a certain way. Feelings are feelings and you can't help them.
My worst-I am probably too protective of her. I try to let her have some independence, but there are so many weirdos and perverts out there, it is hard!
2007-06-27 09:11:29 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best: the love and compassion that I feel for my children. the love that I feel for them can't put into words. My life wouldn't be the same without a single one of them.
Worst: My lack of patients, I get real tired of hearing myself speak over and over again. It's almost like I am speaking to a brick wall.
2007-06-27 09:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by Alabula 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Patience, love and kindness mixed in with the discipline. Willing to set a good example rather than telling them what to do.
2007-06-27 14:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by Buffy Summers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
best-I'm always there for my son. We spend a lot of time together one on one.
worst-I'm severly over-protective! But he's only 3 so I think it may ware off MAYBE lol
2007-06-27 09:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by Chrys 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋