2007-06-27 06:36:54 · 37 answers · asked by mike d 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I bet it's not cheating that she's thinking about here. If that were me...I'd wonder why my boyfriend wanted to go see live naked women stripping if everything in our relationship is supposedly okay. I'd feel like something was wrong with me if he felt the need to go to that. I think that most girls feel that relationships are special, that it's a bond between two people, a bond of friendship and intimacy...if my guy wanted to go see other girls naked...I'd sorta feel like he was breaking or stepping out of that bond a little bit, and it's that bond that makes relationships so wonderful. Just consider how she's looking at this, and how you wanting to go to a strip club makes her feel. Take care.
2007-06-27 06:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by ILY 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
In a way yes, you are cheating. You are taking a sexual part out of your relationship and she is feeling hurt. Maybe it is insecurity or it's just the way women want attention. Either way, if you have any strong feelings for your girlfriend you shouldn't want or need to see other girls in that way. You also have to remember that the majority of the girls stripping are lesbians or drug addicts. There is a small percentage that is doing that for family reasons or trying to pay for college. Most strippers don't give a rats @ss about you...just your money. You are a walking bank. Keep that in mind when you want to hand your money over.
2007-06-27 06:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your girlfriend. Why do men make it seem that it is okay to watch naked women. I'm not totaly religious but I do think that your body is sacred. I'm not going to lie about it, yes I've thought of going to one before, and yes it is an insecurity many women have. In the Bible it states that even if you think of lust, which in your case is a naked woman, it is a form of infidelity. If your gf is open minded well then take her to one, if she doesnt like it then why dont you take her out somewhere nice instead of giving money to strippers. Keep in mind, what happens when you see these strippers, you get turned on right? Think of men getting turned on my your gf and seeing parts of her that are there for you only to see. Out of respect for her, I wouldnt go if I was in your shoes (and if I was a guy).
2007-06-27 06:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think strip clubs are fine if you are going for a bachelore party or something but if you have a girlfriend you don't need to be going there for any other reason.
2007-06-27 06:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you going? Don't you get enough satisfaction seeing your girlfriend naked?
Would you have a problem with her going to see male strippers?
Some people think looking at naked girls will lead to sexual thoughts (which of course it will), which will lead to touching and eventually cheating. Unless you feel like you have to go to survive, then maybe you shouldn't. It will keep a lot of fighting from happening in your relationship.
2007-06-27 06:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strip Clubs strip girls of their self respect, strip clients of their money, strip trust from relationships and strip neighborhoods of their property value. Educate yourself on the BIG picture THEN decide.
2007-06-27 06:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by E J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the lords eyes it is still cheating ! Marrige is the joining of 2 hearts 2 minds and 2 bodies becoming one flesh. Once Jesus returns there will be no sin, including flesh pedeling.
2007-06-27 06:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probrably is one of the jealous girlfriends,if I was her I would go with you because even some girls like to see other girls stripping sometimes!!And if she is not up for the fun then maybe you should tell her that she has nothing to worry about!
2007-06-27 06:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by mountaingirl61t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok no break up needs to happen over some titty bar damn,(what a bad story to come out of that, lol). Your not cheatin if you do go but you should respect how she feels about this and not go. She could probally strip for you anyway, Right?
2007-06-27 06:44:31 · answer #9 · answered by butterfli8134 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. If your girlfriend had a bunch on naked wangs in her face all night for a good time but she didn't touch them would she be cheating?? If you had a stranger off the street strip for you would that be cheating, or do you have to pay for it to make it ok?
2007-06-27 06:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by jo-jo 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋