2007-06-27 06:24:33 · 22 answers · asked by Shea S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he doesn't make you feel happy and secure in your relationship, go out and find someone that will.
2007-06-27 06:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a relationship for 8 years with someone who always wants to break up with me for someone else, then finds out that the someone else isn´t interested and therefore stays. I don´t get so upset about it anymore. When I hear the same story again, I just smile and continue to be myself, because since being with me is great because I try hard and do my best to make my partner happy and that´s why I am confident that I will win out against the competition. If I don´t, then it is probably not because the other girl was better, but because something in our relationship was not quite as it should have been. In one case when I thought I was about to be dumped for someone else, I "beat my partner to the punch" and found someone else for myself. That caused both of them to fight over me, which is flattering, but stressful...and in the end I stayed with the original partner, who appreciated me more knowing it would be no problem for me to find someone new.
2007-06-27 13:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by Happy Feet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him by saying that you've noticed some strange behavior and it's making you wonder. Basically let him know you are on to him. If he IS going to break up, break up with HIM first, this way he learns a lesson.
2007-06-27 13:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by Orchideye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not care.. Act like you dont mind it at all.. That will make him want you alot.. Maybe not in the next few days but next week Ohh hell Be all over you.. So tell him today you dont think its working out.. and play the game from there.
2007-06-27 13:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by kazapim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him first and make him jealous by dating someone else
2007-06-27 13:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by JJT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do. Want to know what I did when a girl was going to break up with me threw a friend, I walked up to her and did it so she couldn't get the credit for breaking up.
2007-06-27 13:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this what you assume? Do you have any hard evidence that he is seeing someone else? Let him know that you know about it or thinking that you know and ask him to choose between her and you..and then afterward you decide what to do with the relationship..to continue or not to be continue..
2007-06-27 13:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should dump him first and find someone before he dumps u.
2007-06-27 13:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Nairobi Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think that, then let him go. he is not worth waiting for. move on and dump his *** first and then he will see the good thing he lost.
2007-06-27 13:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by ms. K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him go first and i would let him know that you found someone else to comfort you.
2007-06-27 13:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋