Can guys be attracted to women if they have facial hair that they have to shave off daily?

Question

My husband and I are seperated and he told me that I'll never be able to find a man ever again because of a hormonal imbalance I have that causes facial hair, like a man's. I have men's electric shaver that I use every morning. Do you think my husband is right?

Answer 1

Millions of women who are happily married shave every day in exactly the same way as most men do.

Of course there are some men who don't care for the idea of a woman shaving every day -- in the same way as some men don't like redheads or brunettes or tall girls, or girls with small breasts. But equally there are some men who prefer redheads and others who prefer tall girls and others who prefer girls with small breasts.

What guys don't like is girls who deceive them -- so be perfectly honest about the fact that you shave every day.

It seems to me that you're doing the sensible thing --shaving with a men's electric razor. To me the fact of your having male-type beard growth doesn't seem something that should stand in your way at all. If anything, I would think that with many men the fact that you shave every day would give you a competitive edge over most women who spend far too much time and money agonizing over what they're going to do next about their (no doubt lesser, but nonetheless real) amounts of moustache growth. You've at least got the facial hair "problem" sorted out in a way that's totally manageable.

Answer 2

I would get laser treatment for that if I were you. It could make the hair so much finer and sparse. Also, I will admit that it will turn off a lot of men, but not all. I know an Indian woman who had a beard but she waxed hers off. You could see the stubble when it grew back and she got married up on the totem pole. Some men will accept you for you as long as they see that you manage it well.

Answer 3

Do not worry
Your husband is very shrewed and he's just making you loose your self respect.
Do not let him treat you this way.

Hair or no Hair does not matter its the persona that matters

And yes there can be people who have fetish for ven someone with a sore ankle

How does it matter do not look for such jerks.

If somone loves they love you for the person you are noty how you look!

Cheer up!

Answer 4

There are many men in this world who are superficial. I believe you'll meet your soulmate when the time is right.

If your hormonal imbalance bothers you though, do some research about it and what you can do to correct it.

Answer 5

He's full of sh*t ... there's somebody out there for everyone - hairy or not ... I'm sure you've dealt with it for your whole life and him telling you this is just his way of hurting your feelings ... he's trying to push your buttons and if you had to ask this on yahoo obviously it's working ... my advise - divorce and find somebody who loves you for who you are ... somebody who doesn't put you down for something you have no control over ... oh he's pissing me off just thinking about it ... lol ... good luck ... !

Answer 6

well, your husband was once married to you, right? If you can't see the facial hair, then it doesn't matter, right? And any man who can't accept that is not worth your time.

Answer 7

No. He is just trying to hurt you. I think many women have this problem, especially when they age. Also, I think a Dr. could help you with this, or you could get electrolysis.

Answer 8

Honestly, I think it will take most men by surprise. You could try electrolysis to get rid of it.

Answer 9

WOW... if you wouldn't have told me that, I would have thought you were shaving something else, which would have been a good thing!

Answer 10

oh man...... Lets put it this way..... You wont land an attractive man.