Im 14 and my exboyfriend wants to get back together but ive already told him that i was with someone else. I broke up with him the first time because he cheated on me. He doesnt understand that im turly over him. But everytime i get close to him he grabs me and kisses me and all the anger melts away. I have no idea wat to do with him help.
2007-06-27 05:54:31 · 17 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look I'm 15 and I've deen dating since I was 13.Your ex still likes you but if he's not some you can trust don't waste your time.Alot of times the people that love you are the ones hurt you and you're over that so let him know that.Don't have him sitting around thinking he can get back with you.
2007-07-05 05:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by @rangotango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young for these silly games, however I know that these are the realities of todays children. Tell him to get lost, dont let him kiss you and dont listen to his lies. Always remember that there is a reason why you broke up with him in the first place, and at your age there is little chance of change. You deserve better... being alone is better than someone who cheats. Dont belittle yourself with this jerk. Learn to love yourself first, then reach out for love from others, this would not even be an issue for you if you had respect for yourself.
2007-06-27 13:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by shadowsthathunt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is still very young. But if this guy is cheating on you now, he'll cheat on you again. The fact that he won't leave you alone and that he grabs you and kisses you shows another side of him as well. He's controlling and he wants to control you. You can't let this type of behavior go on, it will lead to a very bad relationship. Look around at women who have black eyes and have been mistreated by their b/f and husbands. They all have husbands who are controlling and won't respect their wishes. Tell this guy to walk, you don't need his kind of trouble. If he won't leave you alone then tell your parents or the school principal if that's where he's bothering you. Let him know you're serious... --Good Luck!
2007-07-05 09:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by Domino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 you should not be worrying about stuff like this. You have your whole life ahead of you, don't waste it on someone that just wants to play with you. He grabs you and kisses you because he know this throws your thinking off. It is up to you to set boundaries and realize that if he cheats once, he will do it again, and so will you because you are too young to commit yourself to one person. Run from this one.
2007-07-04 23:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess just keep away from him. He's only doing that because he knows you'll forgive him. How old is he. If he's older you know what he's probably telling his buddies? I've got her rapped around my finger. Not necessarily saying he has to be older he can be your age up to the same game. Be careful baby because there are too many diseases out here and you are still very young and have ALOT of life to live. My suggestion is to just keep away from him if y'all are over. Be safe and stay strong.
2007-07-05 11:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by sugalipz4real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows that you won't stand up to him fully and tell him to stay away from you so he continues to play on this weakness.
If you stand firm in your convictions and let him know that no matter what he does or says you will not go back to him (and you have to REALLY MEAN IT!!) he will back off.
Don't let him hold you, kiss you or anything that your boyfriend should be doing.
HE BLEW THAT CHANCE!!
2007-07-05 08:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Nice&Neat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he grabs you and kisses you, kick him in the shin as hard as you can. He'll stay away from you and he won't bother you again.
2007-07-05 12:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by Jewlz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your kissing him back then your leading him on. He cheated on you remember-and most likely he'd do it again.Tell him to get lost whenever he comes around you and concentrate on your new love.
2007-07-05 10:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by lsp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are not interested in him anymore and to leave you alone...you deserve better then a guy who is going to cheat on you...have a little more confidence in yourself and tell this guy to leave you the f*** alone he isn't worth your time
2007-07-04 12:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am thirteen and i truly think u should go back with him but keep a big *** i out on him and he asked u to come back to him and if he try some slick stuff then kick him to the curb he going to be asking u please dont go!
2007-07-05 05:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋