I've been seeing my ex on and off for the past year and a half. He will tell you in a heartbeat I'm not his girlfriend, but he still acts like it. Buys me stuff, stays the night, cuddle, etc. To make a long story short, I have evidence he lied to me and when I approached him about it he told me he was done with me and to leave him alone. That's fine with me, but now he keeps texting me asking me why does he feel like I was lying to him. I don't respond, so he is continuing to text me asking me to asnwer his questions..But before he told me to leave him alone! That he's done with me! What should i do? The evidence I found proves he was with another girl but he swears up and down he wasn't. He also doesn't know I have this proof/evidence. Recently (before i found this proof) he told his mom he wanted to get back with me, but he continues to lie to me and now he said he's done with me....please...some advice!!
He starts his new position with my company on monday (a
2007-06-27 05:26:58 · 6 answers · asked by Whatsit2U 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He starts his new position with my company on monday (also, the day after his birthday) and will be working in the same department as me. What do I do? And what do I do about his birthday? We had plans to go to dinner....but once again, he told me he's done with me and to leave him alone.....?????
2007-06-27 05:32:13 · update #1
Like many men, your ex sounds as if he is very, very confused. He does not know what he wants. You are allowing him the opportunity to have some time with you and still have time with whomever he might want. You have to be the energy in this effort. Ask yourself - do you really want him back? If not, then you have to stop this back and forth dallying. If he is through - he needs to be through - but you have to allow him to leave. It sounds as if you are ready to let him go - but you have to be sure of what you want.....especially since he is starting at your company. You say you have evidence -does this make a difference? Do you really want to be over this guy? Look inside yourself. You deserve better.
2007-06-27 05:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and eat it too. He wants you around for the "girlfriend" like things such as cuddling, spending time together, etc. but he won't call you his girlfriend because he wants to sleep with others. Let him go, he is not worth your time and energy, go and have your fun, find someone who truly wants to be with you enough to call you their girlfriend
2007-06-27 05:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by rcfuentes13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Make him go. Sometimes there are Drama Kings as well as Queens and he sounds like a huge one....
2007-06-27 05:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by MD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go !!! you sound like you are both 15 yrs. old.
2007-06-27 05:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away!
He's not worthy of your affection.
2007-06-27 05:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by arun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one word-
schizophrenia
2007-06-27 05:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋