Im 15. Me and my boyfriend are very close and he really makes me happy for once in my life. June second was our 1 year annivesary so to say and we had sex. Im kind scared now because i think i might be prenant. Does anyone have any heads up advice. i know itll be struggle and i know hell be there the whole way with me. Im just scared. i havent talked to any1 about this really. i can get a test but i dont want to because i dont really want to see a positive test. im gonna wait it out till my next period and hope this one comes on time and right. Im not real close to any1 but my grandma. my parents are all a little busy for me. im the oldest of 6. i think to be honest im just looking for some support and guidance really. thanks in advance!
2007-06-27 04:46:42 · 22 answers · asked by Angel Ray 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Honey, take the pregnancy test now, you better find out if you are or not. I am not saying he won't help you with the baby, but I was a mother at the age of 16, got married and all, the marriage turned sour, and I left him. I am not saying this will happened to the 2 of you, but life can be hard sometimes.
If you are, I wish you the best of luck with your baby, and please tell your grandma, you will definitely need to tell somebody, believe me you will need all the help you can get.
2007-06-27 04:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all hun, get a test. It's better that you know you are pregnant sooner than later so that you can weigh your options and figure out what you are going to do. Go to CVS, Walgreens, or Walmart and get a test. Do it so that you know whether you are or not.
If you are pregnant, talk to your grandmother since you guys are close. You are really young, so you will have to figure out if you are going to keep the baby or not. It will be hard, I got pregnant 17 and I am 18 now, it's hard so I can imagine how hard it will be for you. Remember to graduate from high school, that's important, but it's not impossible. Just make sure you get family support if you are going to keep the baby and that's all you will need to get by. Just don't keep it a secret, no matter how scared you are. If you want to consider adoption, there are a lot of agencies you can talk to. And depending on what state you are in, you may be able to get an abortion if you do not want to continue with the pregnancy. It's all your choice, but you have to figure out if you are even pregnant first of all and make sure you talk to someone.
If you are NOT pregnant, please use birth control. You are still young and have a long life ahead of you, get through school and college (if u want to go to college) and then consider starting a family. Trust me, having a baby is great, but it's very very hard for young people. Use a condom or get on the birth control. Just be smart about it!
2007-06-27 04:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by melly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may just be panicking right this minute. If you haven't missed your period then I wouldn't worry yourself to death just yet. If and when you do miss it you need to get an EPT as soon as possible. You don't want to put it off. The sooner you know, the better for you and your baby. Putting it off won't make you any less pregnant and this is not a problem that is going to go away. In the meantime if you continue having sex, which I'm sure you will, use condoms. At least then you won't have to worry so much and will be protecting yourself from worse things than pregnancy. If you do turn up pregnant, tell your parents. I know this sounds scary, but you have to remember that they're human too. They will know what to do and how to help you. They may have even been in your shoes at one time in their life so give them a chance.
2007-06-27 04:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by yankeegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all sweetie, Relax and Breathe.
One way or another, everything will be OK.
Wait until your next period is due and if it doesn't come, then I would suggest getting a test. If you have a close friend who can be there, have her stay with you when you take it. It's better to NOT be alone at a time like this!
Regardless of the results, don't panic.
I wish you all the luck.
Know that you are in my prayers.
Peace!
2007-06-27 04:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by Ginny Lou the Peachy One 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... you need to get a test. Just to make sure. It could be negative. If it does come out positive, you need to tell your grandmom and she can help you tell your parents. 15 is really young to have a child. It will change your life. You need as much time as possible to think of the options you have. You can keep your baby, find a great couple and have an open adoption... etc. But, before you worry needlessly... please take a test. From now on... please use protection. Go to Planned Parenthood and get birthcontrol pills. If need be... your parents never have to know your on them. Better safe, than a mother at 15.
2007-06-27 04:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wish you would have asked for advice before you decided to have sex so young, didnt you use protection? if you are pregnant hun, its gonna be more than just a struggle, youve changed your life forever by one making one stupid decision, i guess all i can say is good luck and hopefully if you are youve found the one in a million teenage boy that will actually stick around and help you out, but more than likely it will end up being all on you and your family, you said youre not real close with any of them, well id start getting close bc theyre the ones that youre going to need the most! and by the way if youre not pregnant please wait to have sex until you are old enough to understand the responsibility that comes along with it!
2007-06-27 04:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by domsmom701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think you are pregnant you need to wait until you've actually missed your period. I think I was about 3 or 4 days late when I took mine. Were you not wearing protection? Hopefully, if you decide to have sex again you will use some form of protection! B/c not only will you end up pregnant but there's always the possibility of an STD! Please just be more careful and don't think it won't happen to you b/c it can
2007-06-27 04:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all are you on birth control? Did you use protection? If you didn't you have a really good chance of getting pregnant......I would take that pregnancy test just to get it off your chest........If you are pregnant you could always see if one of your family members could adopt the baby .....maybe when you are old enough to be able to take care of the baby financially it would be much better for you........I know someone who had 3 children by the time she was 16 her family really had to help her out.......I myself don't believe in abortion but if it is right for you then you could take that into consideration.........Good Luck! I hope it comes out negative for your sake.
2007-06-27 05:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't stress over it too much. If you're stress, your period might be late, and you'll think you're pregnant, and you'll stress even more, delaying your period even more.
Go get a pregnancy test at the pharmacy, just face the truth. We're all very worried after the first time we have sex. Did you use protection? Are you even right to think you could be pregnant?
2007-06-27 04:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by littlemissemilie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you miss your period (hopefully you won't) and then take a test. If the test is positive you need to talk to your parents (or grandma if that's easier). You will need the support of an adult. And use a condom next time.
Good luck.
2007-06-27 04:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by PK211 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋