I have two girls on the go at the minute and dont know what to do. One is 25 and lives about a mile away and has one child. The other is 18 and lives just round the corner from me. Should I dump one, if so which one? Should I keep on meeting both of them and hope I dont get caught, how long can I get away with this. Both these girls have several older brothers who have told me that they will deal with me if I mess their sister around. What should I do?
2007-06-27 04:31:08 · 26 answers · asked by Sean D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep them both... Just don't get them pregnant.
2007-06-27 04:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by slojam 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all, how old are you? Figure out which one your into the most, don't keep dating both of them because you don't want to be called a player around the hood. Just tell one of them that you don't want to get hurt and your dealing with some problems and move on.If people find out your a player then nobody is going to want to date you, so please listen to my advice. I might be 16 and young but I watch my older brother go through this mess all the time and my older friends and relatives too much.
2007-06-27 11:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you prolly should dump one so that their brothers dont put you in the intensive care unit....right? as to which one you should dump it depends on how old you are...if you are like 19 then go for the 18 year old and if you are like 30 go for the 25 year old....you should also take the kid in to account are you the fatherly type? can you live your life raising a kid that isnt yours? think about it....
2007-06-27 11:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant believe you are actually asking this question! Its your desicion, no one can tell you what to do. I think you should just tell them you are talking to both. Thats if you have just been dating for at lease a month ... If you have been dating these two chicks for a while then, dude your ******! Not only that but you better watch out for the brothers ... GOOD LUCK!!
2007-06-27 11:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by WACKY JACKY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from the both of them cause you are not right and someone is going to get hurt and it might just be you . those boys mean business ,I know I come from a family of 9 and I am the youngest of them and I have 5 brothers who would beat the snot out of anybody who hurt me like that . you need to leave them both alone .
2007-06-27 11:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with the girls, if they really love you, they won't be mad. Don't keep seeing both of them, that's really dishonest, and as a girl, I would hate you if I found out. As for the brothers, don't worry about them, once they see that their sisters are really in love they won't bother you, and they do, well, have a phone handy with 911 ready to be called!!
2007-06-27 11:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by Emmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say your age, but you sound immature!! Stop being a player. These women have feelings!! Hope they both find out. Hope you're a good runner cause them brothers are gonna get your a double s!!
2007-06-27 11:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by Doll 101 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would I know which one you should dump... based on age and location... which one do you like more... how serious are you with these women... how old are YOU?
as a single mother myself I would say you're being a d1ck... quit screwing over the one with the kid and go mess up the younger one with your mind games...
2007-06-27 11:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump th one with the kid. Tell her that youre changin your religion and for that you need to give up relationships or some other crap. aplogize that this is the onlky way.. and then keep it on with the 18 year old haha.
2007-06-27 11:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by Serraa! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you stay with the 25 years old you would have more responsibility considering she has a kid and has to also take care of it and you. and the 18 year old could be a better choice if you don't want responsibility
2007-06-27 11:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by ~Boo~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of one, if you get caught you are going to lose both, you need to decide now on how compatible you are with each one and stick the best one. Decisions suck but you need to make one, and SOON!
2007-06-27 11:34:56 · answer #11 · answered by marissaklump2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋