Do you believe the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" is true?
2007-06-27 03:47:42 · 14 answers · asked by mommy meg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think there's a pat answer for that. All I know is I have cheated in the past (more than 10 years ago was the last time). I was at a different stage in life and was a little more cavalier with my love life, er, sex life. That was also around the time that I had a few one-night stands. Neither one of those would I seriously consider now. No matter what the temptation, I would never act on anything like that now. I'm looking for something more meaningful. I'm looking for a serious relationship. Cheating will never be a part of my life ever again.
2007-06-27 03:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I generally do. A lot of people are different, so I don't know that you could make "once a cheater, always a cheater" as a 100-percent statement. But I do believe that "once a cheater"... there's probably an 80-percent chance they would cheat again.
2007-06-27 03:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by billyrayhombre09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that question is a little bit complicated. now look at it from this point... do you believe in the saying that " THE ONLY CONSTANT THING IN LIFE IS CHANGE" ? yes a cheater, assasin, whatever can change PROVIDED he / she sees enough reasons to change, this reason my be internal: that is the cheater realises within himself that what he is doing is bad and so decides to change or it may be EXTERNAL that is someone convinces thsi cheater that cheating is bad. in both ways the cheater needs human help. so if you have a cheater, don't go away from him but stay with him and show him/her the light. remember many great men had been failures.
2007-06-27 03:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by spider-man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. When someone cheats, it's an obvious sign that the relationship is not going well, the person is not trying to take the relationship seriously, and that they're unfaithful. I mean, if you hook up with a new guy and you find out that he cheated on one of his girls from the past, you're gonna get nervous. You're always going to wonder if he's really at home or at work. Thinking like that slowly breaks the relationship until the bond is completely broken. People don't realize that cheating on your significant other is the worst thing you can do.
2007-06-27 03:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't believe it. People makes mistakes and things happen. I've been down that road, and I can honestly say that when relationships are broken, there is hope. It takes time to regain that trust, but that what love is about. Wanting and needing that love, and returning that love once again.
Almost everybody deserves a second chance. Sometimes we have to fail, to succeed.
2007-06-27 03:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Just Life, Trying To Live It. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-06-27 03:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all - every individual in every situation will act differently.
2007-06-27 03:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont give the girl a second chance to find out. but i have seen it to know its true. and thats guys and girls.
2007-06-27 03:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly most of the time its true.even if they dont want to cheat they fall easy to temptation.
2007-06-27 03:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's like saying old habits are hard to break
2007-06-27 03:52:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋