Every boyfriend i had was black. And almost all of them have cheated? I'm far from ugly and i'm very nice. So why aren't black men loyal now-a-days.
2007-06-27 03:38:53 · 51 answers · asked by welcome2thasouth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
welcometothasouth,
Wow that is a pretty harsh statement. All black men don't cheat that's like saying all black women are gold diggers. When people cheat on you its usually isn't because you are ugly so don't even think that way the most beautiful woman can get cheated on. Maybe you are rushing into some of your relationships therefore leaving yourself susceptible to guys who are talking to you for the wrong reason. I would hate for you to switch up just because you think a white, Hispanic, Asian etc won't cheat on you because they might as well. Shug, all i can say is they weren't the right guys for you it will be ok just stay positive you will find somebody that loves you for you and respects you good luck !
2007-06-27 03:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Blaqchinah Violation Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOAH... don't label the whole race as cheaters. You just pick them wrong. If you have to acknowlege the people that you are dating by race, then you sound like you are just experimenting with a culture/taboo, and not trying to really date to find your mate. If you are dating the "thug" image, well sweety, the thug image is about trying to be emotionless and a player. That thug image is immature. If you meet some guy that is immature, that is just out to have sex, then chances are he wants have sex with more than just you. If you are too immature to realize that PEOPLE cheat, and not a color, then you have a lot of growing to do yourself. You just need to change how and where you meet these little boys. You go to a club to meet guys, then you are probably gonna find a guy just trying to have sex. Stop trying to find men, and let love find you. You should find men that are sincere when you meet them. If you can't read a guy using "game" to talk to you, then unfortunately you are going to get cheated on a lot more. You should try dating guys that are mature. There aren't many men that are under age 25, that are REALLY ready to be committed to one person. Dating is just that... dating. Gaining experiences with different options of people. Marriage is the only commitment that is in writing, and that isn't guaranteed. Just try a different angle dating people, not a color.
2007-06-27 03:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by The E-man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a sterotype and I am sure you dont want to sterotype all black men in the same boat. Every ethic group of men has those that cheat. It is all based on their personal ethics. Sadly to say society has let what is ethically accptable degrade to the point we are at now. A good example of this is Television. They took the cartoonTom and Jerry off the air when it was originally produced because it was too violent. Today it is viewed as not.
2007-06-27 03:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by Pug_the_invoker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of racist in a way isnt it? (no offense intended of course) I mean Certainly not all black men are cheaters. I have plenty of black freinds in long-term relationships with other black females (i guess your black). Thats like saying all white people dont cheat just aint true. ...
So to the real problem saying that think about where you are meeting these guys, are you meeting the right person who is gonna provide you a stable relationship.
Hope i could help.
2007-06-27 03:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see where you're coming from, and I recognize there are exceptions to every rule...there are some loyal black men out there, but I think that it's due to cultural differences. I noticed that black, hispanic, and arab men are more sneaky, flashy, macho, aggressive, opportunitistic, and sexual than asian or white men. Infidelity is more common amongst blacks...from what i've seen, black women also cheat a whole lot.
2007-06-27 03:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just that race, its all races, and not only the men either. Its women as well. Before getting into a serious relationship, try and find out as much as possible about that person. From friends, or whoever. And, if you find out that they previous cheated... RUN! ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER!!!!
Good luck on finding your mate.
2007-06-27 03:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by Angela H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just black men that cheat. Men from all races cheat equally as bad, as do women. Might I suggest that it has less to do with the race of your past boyfriends and more to do with you being attracted to personality types that are more prone to cheating. Rethink the men you are picking to date, it may just be that you are going for the wrong kind of guy.
2007-06-27 03:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by Nell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Black men are cheaters for the same reason white men are. If you're looking for someone who doesn't cheat you're living in a dream world.
2007-06-27 03:43:05 · answer #8 · answered by Toolegit 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you guy's always talking bad about you own race have you not learn when you do this you are talking about yourself !!!!!!!!!
Why not say why do men cheat !!!!!!!!,
Just like female cheat because we are all human and no one is perfect I myself try to walk a straight an narrow , I don't cheat because I have no reason to cheat , my girl is great so I have no other choice then to treat her like a lady and do the thing a REAL MAN should do . and yes I did take offense in that comment.
2007-06-27 03:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who says that all black men are cheaters ?. If, as you say, almost all of them have cheated AND you`re the only common denominator, what does that tell you ?. Either that or you make some really, really poor choices.
2007-06-27 03:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by Hondaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋