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Question

...Whats best for me to do?
I really like my friend Amy, and I have no way to tell (im a guy, come on, even though im not like most guys) what she thinks. My instinct is to flirt, be careful to show the right qualities about me, etc... and when i think the time is right, kiss her. Im not sure exactly about any of it, though, and i dont want to screw up a good friendship.
Help?

Answer 1

Realize that the only differents between friendship and lovers is are own stupid perception of it, honest. See the fact is at the center of any deep, meaningful relationship is a friendship. So don't forgo the friendship because you want to get laid, thats my point, thats going to kill it. But understand that being friends will eventually led to you becoming lovers, as long as you guys can get past your own insecurities, its nature, its right, better then finding some cute stranger and fing them, trust me. But your already forsaken the friendship, TALK TO HER!!! Let her know that you feel this way, its obvious its just feelings right now, let her know its just the deepth of your feelings for her or getting stronger. I mean what does she expect? And understand this chinesse proverb. Friends can become great lovers, but great lovers rarly become friends. Be honest with your friend their and don't push anything, just be honest, see what happens.... O yea since this isn't classically how relationships are done, don't be classical about it. Don't just go to her and Say, I love you and what you to have my baby or something helplessly romantic like that. Just be honest to the fact that your feelings are intensify, your diggin her, you enjoy her, just if your going to say something like that be prepared to explain why don't just throw out that romantic bs, because your the one, know why.