2007-06-27 03:31:46 · 20 answers · asked by Disillusioned 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
live...just live
2007-06-27 03:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont jump into another relationship too fast. And because you broke up with her then you had a reason so dont go make the same mistake ie. Get back with her. It wont work for you because whatever reason you left her for it will still be there people cant really change unless theres a huge mind set meltdown which love can make you do but alot of people dont have a damn clue what love really is. But i'm not going to preach about what love is. But you need to spend time reattaching yourself to your old friends presumming if they're your friends they should still be there waiting for you after you broke up. They should be there to support you. Also find a girl thats one of your friends and use her as your shoulder to cry on. Most guys would make fun of you behind your back for crying even though evey guy does it. Just pray alot only time can heal that wound.
2007-06-27 10:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mr1NCR3D1BL3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you broke up with her. You could do two things. Firstly, ask yourself why you broke up with your girlfriend. Was it, for example, because you found someone else? Or was it because you didn't feel ready for a relationship? Secondly, assess whether you're happier with her or without her. If you're happier with her, you should get in touch and talk stuff over. If you're happier without her, you have made the right decision. It's very hard to move on sometimes but it can be done. Deal with how you feel and talk about it. If you don't do that it makes things worse as you don't properly get over it.
Ignore the advice about just 'getting over it'; it's so cliche as everyone's so different.
Hope I have helped.
2007-06-29 19:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the violins played...
Sorry to be so glib, but c'mon. This literally happens to just about EVERYONE at some point in their lives. Of course you are heartbroken. It hurts. It sucks. You'll live. Now it is time to pull yourself up and move on. Don't call her. Don't talk to her. And keep yourself busy! Call your friends. Have some fun. Get involved with things. Give yourself some time. You'll get over it, and you'll be on your way to finding someone better. Good luck!
2007-06-27 10:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on pal..Time would heal your wounds.. No point thinking of her and of your past relationship when you not going to get back with her.. Focus on some other things like your friends, hobbies, sports etc.. For all you know, you would have forgottem about the relationship and how heartbroken you were..good luck..
2007-06-27 10:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by jacquesLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bud, I just had the same issue, more or less. She proved to me that she wasnt who i thought she was and that kinda killed me inside...
You know what Im doing, whats working?
Ignore it.
Put other things in the way.
Chances are youve not been seeing enough family and friends... spend a lot of time with them.
Build up a little bit of ego.. not much (dont be a jerk!) but enough to be self confident. Work out, if youre in shape, it helps a lot to make yourself happy about who you are.
Dont let this ruin your life. Move on, no matter how hard this is.
Hopefully this helps,
and hopefully it gets better :(
If you wanna talk, you can message me.
~Trist
2007-06-27 10:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by Tristannnn! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need 2 specify the reasons for ur break-up. If she's miffed at u or sumthin, apologise and convince her u will never do it again. If it's her fault, DON'T apologise or do anythin.......if she feels guilty, she will surely try & sort things out. But if nothing works, tell urself she wasn't meant for u & move on. It isn't the end of the world dear...
2007-06-27 10:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she broke up with you, not the other way around. Only time can heal a broken heart or another woman.
2007-06-27 10:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Injam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow yourself time to get through mourning this lost relationship. You need to undergo this process to reduce the baggage that you may otherwise carry into your next one.
2007-06-27 10:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by PrivacyNowPlease! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax.....ull be ok its only a girl its not like anyone died...take it one day at a time...over time u will heal believe me ull be ok!!!! Just start hanging with friends and try to stop thinking about her i no its going to be hard but u can do it!!!
2007-06-27 10:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by cwsucks6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be ok. You broke up with her for a reason. Not all things are meant to be.
2007-06-27 10:38:14 · answer #11 · answered by Giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋