Once and for all. Men are simple. They are black and white. They are not psychic. They do not read minds. They do not purposly hurt you. If you want them to do something, tell them. If you want them to say something, tell them. If you want them to stop something, tell them. Don't get mad inside because they are not what you want. Then let it boil and fester and cause resentment.
If I guy is looking at you, it is because you are worth looking at. If you want to know why, ask him. He will tell you.
What does a guy want in a woman? A warm body. Prefferably one that does not nag. And that makes him feel good to be a man.
There you go. The solving to all of you problems.
Now, flame away.
2007-06-27 02:45:09 · 12 answers · asked by Stephanie J 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Last I looked, I was a woman. But, find this funny or not, (not in my opinion) because I understand this, and this is pretty much my approach to life, I end up dating men who emotionally are like women... ARRRGGHHH!!! Drives me nuts.
2007-06-27 02:58:04 · update #1
Mable, to each her own. I've definately come by my opinion through experience, and a practicle upbringing. I'm a farm girl, raised around adults, never had the inclination to hang out with the girls and form their opinions.
At 29 yrs old, and decent enough looking, I've dated more than my fair share of men. In fact, since I moved to Florida 8 months ago, my friends & family have labeled me a "serial dater." And I will tell you, only 1 of the men I am no longer seeing by his choice (the one that got away). That's a whole'nother topic.
2007-06-27 03:07:42 · update #2
Well either you are a man pretending to be a woman (I hope not) or one of the most insightful women I have ever had the privilege of talking to!!!
2007-06-27 02:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did you learn this through experience? Just wondering, because you are largely correct. Not perfectly, but largely correct. Men are a lot more straight-forward than women are, and I'm not sure the reason why. But if a guy says he likes you, it's usually because he likes you. Or if a guy tells you you're pretty it's usually because you are pretty. There's not a lot of mystery or cross-purposes, like there often seems to be with women.
I may ask that as a question, right after I send this answer: Why are women not more straight-forward?
I won't say that any warm bodied woman will do for a man, because despite what many women believe, guys do have a romantic side. But it is true that guys hate nagging. But I bet even women hate nagging, if they are ever nagged by someone.
2007-06-27 10:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by billyrayhombre09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flame away? Not on your life! You are RIGHT ON. I am your newest biggest fan now! You might want to add that what a man wants in a woman also depends on the man. I prize loyalty, as do many other men. I guess thousands of years of having to decide whether to kill the sabre-toothed tiger or die being eaten by one (i.e., quick decisions) made us easier to understand. You are a GENIUS. Tell the other women.
2007-06-27 09:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. super awesome there... guys are simple, and reminds me of the time i was talking with my friend. she and i were talking on the phone and we had one of those silences and she decided to start humming. i asked her, has anyone ever told you how nicely you humm? and she gasped like, aww, how sweet, and so she says, no, no one has ever told me how nicely i humm, and then i simply said, well maybe you dont humm nice then. hahaha. she was so mad, she got me for that! today we went on a nice long highway drive groovin with some music. re-reading this i now know that it makes no sense but it was funny anyways. haha.
you did forget to include the part that women are psychic!!! see..... you used it to read what men are thinking. wowww. you are cool. pass it on.
2007-06-28 01:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by philosopher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true at all. Men want you to think that they are simple creatures but really they are more complex than women. Stroke the ego but not too much, dont be too avalable because men like to hunt but they also like it simple so dont be too unavalable. No one likes to be nagged. I used to think like you and after dating quite a few guys i have realised its not true.
Im not flamming, I just think you are mis informed.
2007-06-27 09:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by mable3691214 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW........This is fantastic. This is almost too good. Are you a guy? lol Seriously, all women need to read this. Guys are not complicated, if you think guys are, then you are complicated and are trying to over analyze them. Thank you for posting this.
2007-06-27 09:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Dustin W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You go girl. As a man I hope other women read this and learn from it.
2007-06-27 09:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely amazing. I wish I could meet a woman like you.
2007-06-27 10:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by posttk421 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Interesting. If only life was that simple.
2007-06-27 09:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha! nice way of putting things. but to be honest, i think some men are much more than just that.
2007-06-27 09:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by JuLiA 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋