SCARY DREAMS AND EXPERIENCES!!! help!!!!!!?

Question

PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE!! iVE NEVER TOLD ANYONE ABOUT THIS BUT EVER SINCE I WAS 5 I HAVE BEEN HAVING THESE REALLY SCARY DREAMS AND EXPERIENCES BECAUSE THAT WAS WHEN MY MUM DIED AND I AM NOW 13!!! I HAVE THIS DREAM OVER AND OVER AGAIN. ITS WHEN IM IN BED AND I HAVE JUST WOKEN UP AND IT SAYS IT 2:00 IN THE MORNING (THATS THE TIME MY MUM DIED) AND THEN MY CALENDER FLIPS BACK OVER AND OVER UNTIL THE YEAR IS 1998. i LOOK OVER AT MY DOOR AND MY MUM IS STADING THERE CRYING!! SUDDENLY THE BED MOVES CLOSER AND CLOSER TO HER AND I HIDE UNDER MY BLANKET. MINUTES LATER I LOOK WHERE SHE WAS STANDING AND THERE IS ABIG PUDDLE OF BLOOD JUST THERE ON THE FLOOR WITH A KNIFE. THATS WHEN I WAKE UP!!!! I GOT SO FREAKED OUT ONE TIME THAT IN THE MORNING A GOT UP AND LOOKED WER SHE WAS STANDING. IT WAS SO SCARY AS THE FLOOR LOOKED ALL SHINEY AND I COULD SEE MY MUM IN THE REFLECTION!! THEN ONE TIME I LOOKED IN THE MIRROR AND I SWEAR I SAW MY MUM STANDING BEHIND ME. SHE LOOKED AS IF SHE WAS TRYING TO FIX MY HAIR

DOESNT ANYONE BELIV ME?????? SOMEONE TELL ME WHAT MY DREAM MEANS!!!!

Answer 1

Darling, I believe you. Didn't your Mum die in 1998? That's why the calendar is flipping back. I am curious, was she murdered or did you see her die? Is that why you are seeing all that blood and knife in your dreams?

Any age is too young to lose your Mum but age 5 is so young. It's an age when you are too young to understand death and, lots of time the child keeps waiting for Mum to come back. Death is so cruel, it's final, it is invisible, and has the final say. We can't even argue with it.

I believe your Mum's love surrounds you continuously and that's why you saw her in the mirror. She may be away from you but you are never away from her love.

You need to sit down with you Dad or grandparents and have them tell you all the good stuff about your Mum. It's been 8 years and you may have forgotten some fun things and some of the best things about her. Ask them to show you the pictures they have of her. You also need to tell them everything about the dreams you are having and ask them to help you get counseling.

There are certain things you can do to change your dreams. For instance, before you go to sleep, tell yourself that if your Mum comes to you in a dream, you are going to talk to her instead of hiding from her. You're really not hiding from her but from the blood and knife. Also tell yourself that you're going to tell her she is scaring you and to please go to Paradise and be at peace. She may be just waiting for you to let her go. She'll still love you and you will still love her.

Answer 2

I am a practicing Buddhist of 15 years and I have some understanding of paranormal phenomenon - though it is limited.
In most cases I wouldn't say that ghosts are real or that dreams put someone in contact with ghosts, however, your case seems to be unique. In Buddhism, there is a lot of focus on "attachment". It basically just means that people get very attached to other people, family members or things. In this case, it is possible that your mother loved (loves) you SOOOOOO much that she is entering your dream state - but because she does not know how to control her karma in the Bardo realm (a twilight world between this life and the next life where various pleasant AND unpleasant experiences occur)-her own fears or shock or negative mental images are being transmitted to you in your dream.
This is NOT her intention - and she may be confused by the fact that you get scared every time she comes to visit you!! She's probably thinking, "Hey! Why isn't my kid happy to see me?!" unaware that the bardo (which is a very difficult transition for some people has mixed with her consciousness and is "leaking" over to you in your dream state.
READ THIS VERY CAREFULLY~!!
http://kaladarshan.arts.ohio-state.edu/exhib/sama/Essays/CBardo.html

If there is anything you don't understand, go to www.dictionary.com and find out! Pay special attention to
the part about "the fearful nature of the Bardo visions".
If you want to know more, BUY the book "The Tibetan Book of the Dead." and perform the rituals inside that book.

It will not be easy for you to do it, but you want to sleep at night right? And you want your mother to be happy right?
The rituals in that book will allow you to say prayers that can guide your mother through the Bardo and allow her to release her grasp on you more easily. If you love her, you MUST let her go and you MUST help her to let you go.

Do not be afraid of anything in that text. It can really help.

Oh, and one more thing! If you don't do something, your mother could be stuck in the Bardo FOREVER - visiting you again and again!!! I'm not joking around here! Do it!
If you can't do it, try to find a Buddhist Monk who will perform the rituals or some similar ritual!

Good luck!!!!!

Answer 3

I believe that there is something you missed your mom so much. I am not sure how she died. But subconsciously you are losing control and can't accept the fact that she is dead. Projecting her in the dream like real shows emotionally you are afraid of the fact that she is no longer her.

You have her projected the bloody scenario shows that there is a suffering going on in your childhood. It is normal for a child to dream that when you had that bad experience. This mum of yours in your dream is actually your fear of losing in your subconscious mind. You probably can't get over it still. You may want to talk to someone you trust, the more you talk about your fear, your loss, your need, you will not have that kind of dream. Good luck!

Answer 4

I believe you, but I don't know how to fix it. Something in the spiritual world is trying to freak you out. I would pray the Lord's prayer out loud every night before I went to sleep and pray that the Lord protect you from the evil one.

Additionally, you need to see a dr. and a therapist. You've obviously not gotten over your mom's death. A sleeping pill might help you not dream and get some much needed rest. Or maybe these dreams are symptomatic of a mental disorder and the dr can treat it.

I'd point all three guns in that direction:
Help from God
Help from dr.
Help from therapist

Answer 5

5 is so young to loose your mother. It's no wonder you have nightmares. Do you have photos of your family? I think you should sit down with your father, or a brother or sister, or anyone who is available and go through the family's photos of your mother and talk about her together, like what kind of person she was and how much she loved you and what happened when she died. I bet those dreams will go away after that. Your family may think you don't want to know these things but not knowing may be what is frightening you.

Answer 6

I believe you. You don't need to be scared. Your mom needs your help. She is in the spirit world now, and there is some reason she is not at rest. You need to seriously pray to your Divine Guardian for guidance and help for yourself, and also pray for your mother like this:

"Dear Heavenly host, please bless my mother's soul with whatever she needs the most, Please help her in the way you know she needs help, according to John 14:14 I humbly pray. Amen."

This will help her so very much, I think you'll begin to notice a change in the dreams and you may feel something good when you say "amen". Pray as often as you want, you will be blessed.

Good luck. Be blessed.

Answer 7

You miss your mom terribly. I feel so bad for you. When you have these dreams, quickly think about the happiest memory you ever had. If you can't think of one, WAKE UP!

Answer 8

It sounds like un resolved conflict
acceptance , is the key yo can overcome this
death is not the end ..one day we will all be in the same place
study the words of jesus
he is there for you,,,

Answer 9

OMG. Please talk to someone close to you. They will help.