2007-06-27 02:35:53 · 13 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This happens to me a lot (I don't know why)...I'd feel flattered, but I'd let her know in no uncertain terms that I'm not interested in pursuing it. It can become a sticky situation if you don't. An ex-co-worker of mine started off conversations with me by asking me which female celebrities I thought were cute, hot, whatever. Well, girls always talk about other girls looks so I didn't think anything of it. But gradually I figured out that she wanted to know whether I was up for an sexual encounter with her. I found it flattering because I was like 10 yrs older than her (she was 24). I was just pleasant towards her but she knew I was straight. But one night at an employee party at a club, she rubbed by butt. I mean, I was sitting down and she came near me and put her hand in the back of my trousers! I shot up out of my chair and went to the bathroom. Later that night she gave me and other friends a ride home. Once she dropped everyone else off, she accused me of being a flirt! So you never know how being "friendly" can be misconstrued as "interested". She actually wanted to beat me up when she found out I had discussed the incident with another co-worker. She was apparently on the downlow and was ashamed of her bi-sexuality. I told her to grow up!
2007-06-27 04:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flattered, and then I would turn them down. I'm in a 17-year relationship... with a woman. We are quite loyal to each other. Also, guys don't turn me on!
2007-06-27 02:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would take it as a compliment definitely. It's not my thing but i would still be pleased that she found me attractive and hey if i was drunk enough who knows......
2007-06-27 02:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ariel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Offended. What would make them think you swing that way?
2007-06-27 02:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would calmly but clearly and firmly tell her that I am straight and to leave me alone but that is just me. Why? Do you like this other guy?
2007-06-27 02:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I thank them for the compliment, and if I'm drunk enough, or in the mood, I take them up on it.
2007-06-27 02:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie J 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would be somewhat flattered but politely refuse.
2007-06-27 02:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by Steph 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be offended
2007-06-27 02:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
gross. That would most likely end the friendship.
2007-06-27 02:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely pleased.
2007-06-27 02:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋