I really fancy a neighbour of mine. Have been admiring him from a far for a while. Finally got chance to talk to him and we get on well. He acted all nervous around me (which I'm told is a good sign that he may like me?) He's 23, I'm a 33 female. Just want to know my next move? Would he be intimidated by my age? Any advice? What do the younger guys out there think? Thank you for your help. :)
2007-06-27 01:55:37 · 18 answers · asked by Claire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probably intimidated and not sure if you're actually making a play or just messing with him. Be very obvious about what you're interested in. He's young, and young guys are generally terrible at picking up hints and suggestions, unless they're already married.
It's not that he's NOT interested, he probably is. But, older women flirt and mess around with our heads all the time. He's debated whether or not you're being friendly or flirty for fun, or if you're really going to bang him.
Again, be OBVIOUS. TELL him he's really sexy and you'd like to see what he can do in bed. Then invite him over, get naked first. Lead the way.
Have fun!
2007-06-27 02:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My father in law is ten years younger than my mother in law and they have had a long and happy marriage with no issues regarding their ages. The only possible drawback if you are looking at a long term relationship is the question of children as you will need to look at having them sooner rather than later but at 33 you've got a few years yet.
Try not to let the age issue get in the way (but don't lie about your age), just treat him as you would any other guy that you fancy.
2007-06-27 02:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the age bother you, if he is nervous around you, possible he doesn't know what to do next. Make him feel that he can relax around you, once he starts feeling relaxed you will get more out of him. Maybe you both should go out for a meal and talk about anything and everything. That way you both will feel what you both want. Younger guys like mature worman, they just think we are experienced in everything and sometimes they expect so much from us, buy hey enjoy his company - you only live once. Good luck
2007-06-27 02:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by Ruksana P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married to a man 9 years younger than me and we have been together now for 7 years so it does work out.
My hubby liked the idea of an older woman, more mature, more knowlegdeable and more confident especially in the bedroom department.
My advice is to go for it, the worst he can do is knock you back and then you just dust yourself off and start all over again.
Hope you get your man!!
2007-06-27 02:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by loobyloo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time the age doesn't matter and they wont be intimidated by your age the problems start when your made to feel older or younger then you are by the way they act
2007-06-27 02:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by clover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had quite a few older women in my time, im only 21 and my current girlfriend is 27, It really depends on what u want from him? full on relationship or just sex? If its just sex and he's shy lead the way, and enjoy yourself!.
In my experience I led the way, I flirted to find out if they were interested and then went for it, but they were all about Sex
2007-06-27 05:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Antman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My co-worker was 23 and married a 30 year old woman. They get along fine been three years and they have a baby!
2007-06-27 02:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the age thing will be a problem. you need to talk to him again and then ask him if he want to go for a coffee or a drink. Good luck
2007-06-27 02:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by Maon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age gap shouldn't matter BUT consider what your other neighbours will start saying about you
2007-06-27 02:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by jamand 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is nothing but numbers,what you should look out for is that
is the guy mature for what you want in a relationship?.
If so then it is alright.
2007-06-27 02:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by anne o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋