im having a male stripper at my bachelorrete party but josh doesnt want a female stripper @ his bachelor party he said it would be up to me and he would supportmy decision...do you think he's just being sweet? and plus i feel guilty that he doesnt want a stripper and then i asked him how come and he said " babe.i dont need anything in the whole world but you." i mean O MY GOD! how can u NOT feel guilty after that? and I REALLY REALLY want a male stripper...but just for fun!!
2007-06-27 00:29:09 · 16 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want it get it. Otherwise ask your boyfriend to become the stripper!
2007-06-27 00:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first question would be...why do you "really really" want a male stripper?
What's the big deal? You must be young because once you grow up you see that strippers are kind of stupid, tacky, sleazy and a grand waste of money. You don't love your future husband? Why do you need to see some strange man dance naked? To all the women that say "oh it's all in fun" I personally say that is a load of BS. What is fun about it? You are doing it for one reason and one reason only. You want to see some guy or guys, other than your future husband take his clothes off, and you are using the excuse of "it's my bachelorette party and it's my last night of freedom" as a lame excuse. Your future husband sounds like a nice, decent guy that doesn't want a stripper at his party because he loves you! I would think you would follow his example. Don't ask your friends their advice, because obviously they are going to tell you to hire one because they want to see one!
Also, think about this. The ridiculous excuse that it is your last night of freedom is just that, ridiculous. Say a year from now...a close friend of yours is getting married. And she is hiring a stripper. That would mean you can't go to her bachelorette party right? After all...you had your last night of freedom so you can't attend hers.
This whole idea of strippers for the bachelor/bachelorette party is lame. I say, grow up and just go out with your friends. I say you need to do that and also, reconsider if you are ready to get married if you "really really" feel the need to hire a stripper.
2007-06-27 17:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You "REALLY REALLY want a male stripper...but just for fun!!". What else would you want one for?
Go ahead and get him a stripper, what's good for the goose and all that. Besides, without one, he'll come off as a pu**y whipped wimp, in front of all his pals at his bachelor party (no worse way to start a marriage).
2007-06-27 01:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just showing how much he loves and respects you. You should just order the stripper for his party. Even if he said he doesn't want one, his friends will surely enjoy it, and it will definitely liven up the party. Plus, this way you get to pick the stripper. You're lucky you found such a man. Enjoy!
2007-06-27 00:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by JP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't want a stripper at my party either.
Some guys just don't see a need for that sort of entertainment. Don't let it concerne you. If he
chooses not to have one, so be it.
2007-06-27 02:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by -R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know, "babe". I really never understood what the big deal is about strippers. He just wants you to feel guilty so he doesn't feel so bad about hiring strippers/prostitutes for his bachelors party. Have fun, babe!
2007-06-27 00:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get the stripper! It is sweet that he doesn't want one though. This is your night to have fun!
2007-06-27 00:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, yeah...He's just being sweet...He's sucking up so there will be "music" on your honeymoon, if you know what I mean...He really expects you to cancel your stripper for him too...If you don't cancel your stripper, he will have one for his bachelor party...Trust me...Its either cancel your stripper or maybe help him get one...because he will have one if you do...
2007-06-27 00:34:32 · answer #8 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if you don't know the difference you not older enough to be on here asking these questions
2016-04-01 07:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah get a stripper....tell him he can have whatever party he wants but you should get a stripper!!!
2007-06-27 00:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋