I love her,we kiss and cuddle all the time,that should mean something.But i cant well...'get it up' really.
Whats wrong with me?there is nothing wrong with her,she is the cutest girl ever.
(More info can be found in my blog if you can be bothered to read it.)
2007-06-27 00:23:48 · 18 answers · asked by dusk_to_moonbeam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe your getting too close to your flatmate Ryan... Seriously...you are too nervous - talk to her before she starts thinking something is wrong.. or maybe she just isn't the one for you...or - I remember when I started going out with my wife ...she wore Blue Jeans perfume... the smell knocked my pecker out... try getting her to change her perfume/deodorant..
2007-06-27 00:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. If it's a new relationship and you are young you are probably just a little nervous so just relax and go with the flow! If you are a drinker, smoker or are an older guy you may have impotence problems caused by the above. See your doctor and for goodness sake, talk it over with your girlfriend. I'm sure she will understand. Don't ignore the problem though. I went out with a guy for years who had impotency problems and he would never talk about it and in the end we broke up. He had other problems as well but I always felt like there was something wrong with me but if he had just faced the problem, it may have had a happier ending. (no pun intended) Good luck!
2007-06-27 07:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by veruca salt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are nervous. The first time i had sex with my boyfriend, he became hard, but the nerves made him soft again. Just take a deep breath and think of something that turns you on- like how she looks, as opposed to how you look to her.
You might be impotent, but I really don't think that is the case. It is probably just nervousness.
Also, if something is hindering you from becoming sexually turned on (such as having a fetish), that might be a problem. If you happen to have some sort of fetish, maybe you like to dominate or maybe you like feet, then imagine a scene in your mind with her that will sexually excite you. It is important to be open with your partner about what your sexual interests are- as many stem from psychological issues and strengthen the relationship through sexual relations.
2007-06-27 07:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by double0bettie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are likely gay. Sorry, but what other answer do you think there might be? If you are smoking crack, I can tell you that is the major reason why. Is this girl noticing this?? Does she try to stimulate you, do you guys have your clothes off?
Don't need to read the blog dude!! You made a blog about your sexual problems??? Maybe viagra will help.
2007-06-27 07:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by zanthus 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
.. It may be because you are real nervous .
Have you had sex before ? Have you ever felt this way about a girl ? Have you ever had any sexual contact with a female prior to her ?
If not.. then it's deff. because your nevous ..
or if you have .. it's still because your nervous .. stay calm bro .. don't even think about tryinq to get up .. just let your penis do what it have to do haha ..
Sit down and have a nice talk with it and maybe you two will be on the same page with each other.
2007-06-27 07:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by theGREATEST. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before my last girlfriend, who I'm still in love with, when I met a girl I wanted in bed, I wasn't in love and didn't really care about her. Without realizing it I unconsciencely associated sex with not caring. I thought if we had sex it might mean I didn't love her. Other than this, things seem to be going well for you two. I think you're afraid to mess things up if you have sex with her, like you'll start feeling she's just another girl.
2007-06-27 07:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by NJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I read your blog and... well you obviously love your girlfriend, but are you IN love with her? There's a big difference, you love people as in, think the world of them, do anything for them... and there is in-love where you think of them all the time, miss them when they aren't there, just want to touch them and declare your love for them all the time.
When you are with the person you adore, well you know what happens. You've been there. Things with your girlfriend just aren't right.
Ask yourself - Who are you in love with?
2007-06-27 07:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by floppity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it maybe you (unconsciously) feel she's too sweet and 'innocent' for sex?
Some girls, tho cute and attractive are so sweet and cutsie that it almost seems foreign to think of sex with them.....if that makes any sense. Usually.....not always.....but usually guys like some amount of 'depravity' with sex, and a cutsie girls makes it tough to fit that bill.
Just a thought is all.
2007-06-27 08:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sometimes all it takes is a little time and maybe some experimentation, try something new something you havn't already tried get wild get freaky do somehting and if all else fails their is always meds.
2007-06-27 07:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by queenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi babe
Performance anxiety? Guilt over the past? or it could be that you ARE gay?
Whatever it is darling this is one for you to work out on your own or with professional help. You are leaving yourself too open out here.
Take care
Louise
xx
2007-06-27 07:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by Louise H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋