i meant to be going out for a meal with one of my friends to celebrate the end of exams. but my best friend found out i didnt invite her as we going to steak night at this pub and theres no veggie option for her. she found out because my friend told her he cant afford to go out clubbing with her. my best friend has now threatened him and now he cancelled on me to the meal. what should i do as everytime me and my friend go out she threatens him and get jelouse. she even acts like this when im with my bf
2007-06-27 00:21:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she only my best friend coz i need a friend until august then ill be at uni
2007-06-27 00:27:05 · update #1
one thing she claims to be doing is stopping me from cheating as i used to have a crush on my friend that im going for meals with but i love my bf too much to cheat and the crush is gone
2007-06-27 00:28:20 · update #2
i do wonder if she a lesiban as she touches me and gets very close to me alot
2007-06-27 00:29:38 · update #3
we didnt go for a meal instead we went for a few drink so she cold join us which annoyed us a bit as she refused to go in pubs if they are non smoking and me and my friend dont smoke
2007-06-28 00:58:30 · update #4
OMG, this is not a friend. A friend respects the needs of others. A person who threatens and controls others is dangerous. I would advise you to find another friend.
2007-06-27 00:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend has a bit more feeling for you than you know. She is acting like a boyfriend and her trying to control you in this way is not at all healthy and you must give her an ultimatum. Stop this behaviour or butt out of your life. How are you going to live your life as you wish if she is frightening off your other friends? She is very sad, but is bad news.
2007-06-27 00:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by Normsgirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your so-called "best friend" sounds like a control freak, and is not really your friend at all.
Going around threatening people is no way to behave.
Dump he, do some grovelling to your other friends, and enjoy the steak.
2007-06-27 09:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad thing is she is jealous and well it will keep happening. If you dont be stern with her and make your point across ed that its your life and you do what you want and your sorry that she feels jealous. If she refuses to change her ways after telling her how you feel about it either you deal with it each time or you end your friendship ya its harse but thats life..
2007-06-27 00:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Jason B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to make your best friend understand that she is not the only person in your life as well as u are not the only person in her life, yes she is the best and most precious friend, but there are sometimes that you have to be with your boyfriend, and go to some places with other friends where she can't go, but you will always come back to her, to her best friend, and tell her everything... because she is the best friend...maybe she is not feeling ur love to her ....she wants somebody to tell her good words ....cute words ...respectful words
2007-06-27 00:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by ghadamona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess U should tell your friends about her actions & how uncomfortable ur friends are about her. Tell her that u have other friends as well. U need space.
2007-06-27 00:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by lyn_shi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she still your best friend is she does this? you need to have a nice talk with her. She sounds like she is corpulent. Is she? I bet she is.
2007-06-27 00:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by John S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 'friend' is wierd...you should just avoid her...well...if shes threatening you and your friends then you should confront her about the situation...good luck
2007-06-27 00:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no right to interfere like that....
2007-06-27 00:25:55 · answer #9 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋