If you are confused about something & post a question asking for other peoples advice, how do you know which answer is the right one?
2007-06-26 22:32:00 · 48 answers · asked by Angel Eyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whichever one makes the most sense to you and is most useful to your situation. The right answer will be different for other people.
2007-06-26 22:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by Velouria 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can't know which is the right one for you but you can tell that some answers apply to your situation more than others. And sometimes someone gives you advice that you know you should take but you just can't bring yourself to do it because you dont' have the strength at the time.
However, you get a lot of enouragement when people tell you something is the right thing to do. Or maybe they point out something you have been trying not to see. Or confirm a suspicion you had. It all helps. But it's not magic. You ulitmately decide how you act in your own life.
2007-07-04 20:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people come on here asking for advice, but already have in mind what they want to hear. Some people come on here wanting advice and the best answer for them is the one that seems right, not just what they want it to be. The answer that makes sense, and will do what they are asking.
2007-07-04 08:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by **Kesha** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is this thing called making up your own mind and thinking for yourself. If the answers you get make sense to you then you take that advice and use it in making a decision on your own. It would be stupid just to do what someone has told you and not think it over. Life is full of decisions, you have to make them. Mommy and Daddy aren't always gonna be there to make your choices for you. Learn how to do it now. You will make good decisions sometimes, but you will make some bad ones too. There are always consequences in every decision you make, good and bad. It is theses you have to weigh
2007-06-26 22:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was thinking the same thing!.. umm.. sometimes there is a few similar as opposed to one that is completely different. I asked about telling a friend that I like them as more and when i read the answers telling me to go for it... i smiled. If you smile at an answer that might be the right one?? lol as you can tell i have no idea! sorry!
2007-06-26 22:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by Curious Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is very simple.
You DO have within you, an ability to recognize truth, and it is an ability that you can further develop, with experience and further understanding of life.
If I someone tells you a lie, usually you experience a 'wierd' sort of feeling, but when I tell you the truth, it sort of 'indicates' it feels RIGHT.
If you ask about something very technical of which you feel you have NO idea is a bit hard, however, us human beings, have an ABILITY to recognize truth and there is a gradient scale of knowingness.
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2007-07-04 17:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mishu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang girl use ur head! if thats ur question, why are u here asking this? doesn't that defeat the point of this little program; to voice your opinion in matters that you would normally not have any business doing so. when people ask questiions here its kinda like reading an advice column customized for you. you have to think and consider people's advice and then decide what applies to your situation- if any of the advice does at all. please just think for yourself- thats the point of my answer.
2007-07-04 19:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the question. Go with what you think and feel. If you can look it up than do that. You can always look at who is answering the question. Check out the profile and previous answers. Stats.% Best answers.
2007-07-04 17:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by ENCHANTRESS ROSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've noticed that when Im confused I actually know what to do but its the other person/s involved opinion that is making me confused, I know this might not always be the case but maybe deep down inside you know what to do and are just scared to make that choice - maybe? anyway, back to your question....you dont know which ones right, no one does, just put yourself in the other persons shoes and pick one that you would recat best to.
Good luck xxx
2007-06-26 22:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by Andrea C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know honey, the idea of asking for advise is just that, ask and maybe get ideas for help but in the end it is your decision. We can't give you the right answer just our opinion. In the end it is down to you. xx
2007-07-04 21:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋