today, i saw him flirting and hugging these other girls and i felt kind of jealous and i forced myself to hate him and at that moment i began liking him more and more. do you think am doing the right thing because i dont want to tell him i have a crush on him i want him to tell me he has a crush on me! HELP
2007-06-26 22:18:03 · 10 answers · asked by cleo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The same thing happened to me... the guy i like has heaps of friends that are girls and i saw him the other day run up behind one of them bump into them - i died inside.. lol You can't make yourself hate them because you will only end up doing the opposite as you will think about them more and more. Give it time, look for signs and see if anyhing happens. It may all come down to you having to make the move... i think thats my job to do now...! good luck!
2007-06-26 22:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Curious Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is completely normal. You can't MAKE a guy like you but you can certainly make a guy notice you and then maybe like you. If you like a boy don't change yourself to help him like you, be nothing but yourself. Otherwise it can end up in a mess. However, you can still observe (not stalkerish) the girls he was flirting with and if you admire something about them, outside appearance, you can always change your hair or die it etc... just don't go too over the top. This will help, then he might like you and this will solve your problem. Good Luck!
Crystal
2007-06-27 05:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sweetness !! if you wait ;you may wait for ever .jump in the deep end .and ask him out .he can only say no .then again ;you may get the answer .you want .the two worse words .a person could have on there minds .are jealous .and hate .they just eat you up .don.t go down that road .be a better person .
2007-06-27 05:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. I was so jealous. He was flirting with many girls and he made copliments to me too. Finally i told him i liked him and he sais he find me really beautiful but i don't make him a click. OMG! I'm desperate too. Contact me .....
2007-06-27 05:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well firstly you cannot force yourself to feel something you really don't however in saying that you also cannót make a person like you, or feel something for you that they don't.
Just be yourself and if thats not good enough for him, then hey, he's not good enough for you either.
2007-06-27 05:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off it is not up to u to tell him not to get friendly per say boys will be boys but if u like him write him a note in a card telling him so he can't read your mind like u can't read his or write in the card your feeling to him it might be a chance he likes u too. good luck
2007-06-27 05:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by iris b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, you cant wait forever for this guy of yours. i liked this guys for several months, wishing he would ask me out. it never happend so i decided to take matters into my own hands. i assked him out and he said yes! i suggest that you work up your courage and ask him out, or even just tell him you like him. good luck!
p.s. dont flash him, then you would just be a skank.
2007-06-27 05:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by Emii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flash him, it works on any guy
2007-06-27 05:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he has no crush on you
2007-06-27 05:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by Tan Boon Hwee k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat kind of guy s he? funny? serious? try to be mor like him
2007-06-27 05:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by Lexine U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋