For some reason, I just feel like it takes the romance away, the spontanaiety, and just would make me feel like a desperate loser...
Can anyone tell me if they feel the same, or help me see what I'm not seeing about it that makes it great?
2007-06-26 22:11:36 · 5 answers · asked by rlfesty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kind of feels that way, doesn't it? I think they take away a person's ability to develop interpersonal social skills and that's the sad thing about them. Everybody has become so cold and anonymous...it's as if you just plug in the variables you want, and hope that out pops the finished product, without any work, screening, emotional input or blood, sweat and tears! I think they would be okay if you continue to maintain your social standards and keep a close circle of friends and date outside of the sites; but to do it exclusively, well...you're setting yourself up for just what you asked about.
2007-06-26 22:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, I have never used one, but times change and people lead busy lives, it does not mean you are a "sad case" because you have not met someone by natural means, a lot of people just simply do not have the free time to spend looking for love, if an agency can fix you up with someone that has the same interests as you, then that's half the battle. I found that love comes to you when you least expect it.
2007-06-27 05:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not only for desperate people but it makes things ridiculously easy. I would never do such a relationship. Eye contact is everything for me !!!
2007-06-27 05:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The services are for clueless buffoons.
2007-06-27 05:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never tried it..so i really cant give you agood advice...sorry
2007-06-27 05:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋