children are getting younger and younger these days having sex. so what age is appropriate to begin that talk? how young do you go? what about graphic content/how much detail should you go into? this is not a talk you should only have once with your children so how many times should you discuss this? i have had a talk with my two oldest, but i want to see how much info they took in and can remember. my to children are at different maturity levels mentally so should i talk to them at seperate times again or should i jus t kill two birds with one stone and talk it out to the both of them at the same time? i really think i should do it seperately
2007-06-26 18:01:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would do it separately, otherwise they will be uncomfortable around each other and get embarrassed, especially if they're at different maturity levels.
I believe (as a 16 year old) that it's best to talk to them right before they go to high school, where it all goes down. Peer pressure and trying to fit in will play a big role in their lives during these four years, everything will change. About 1/5th of the kids I know have had sex by the time they're my age. This is a bit embarrassing, but I didn't tell my mother I had done it until she asked me a few months ago, and it is such a relief. Kids never like lieing to their parents nor keeping secrets from them, no matter who they are.
2007-06-26 18:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might say round 12. It does not relatively have got to be as quickly as she begins her interval for women in view that I began at nine and had no clue what intercourse was once. I nonetheless inspiration of boys as peers so it might were needless. For boys; if all of it is going correct, must be round 12 or so. But a few boys exhibit curiosity in women prior or later then that. Even if it finally ends up later then make it 12. Contrary to a couple mother and father ideals, we young adults realize what intercourse is however we don't feel approximately it continually. Some not often feel approximately it. It is dependent upon the child. I did not exhibit curiosity in boys till like thirteen however a few grils I knew had already had intercourse by way of then.
2016-09-05 09:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to Borders or Barnes and Noble they have a section on this for all ages of children, get a cup of coffee and read , you do not have to buy the books there they will let you read them for free
2007-07-04 13:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them when they get in the 6th or 7th grade because when i was in that grade they was teaching us about that kind of stuff, first tell them about what the effects are of having unprotected sex and stds and stuff like that.
2007-06-26 22:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soooooooon as they get their periods, if ur a mom, then u hav to keep in touch with ur daughter or son. oh yeah, if its a son, then prolly at 13 or 14.
remain in a good friendship with ur son/daughter. based on that friendship, it will be harder for him/her to do it.
2007-07-04 11:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋