a friend of mine that knows that I've liked him in the past and i kno that he's liked me in the past......oddly in the movies sends shows me his fone with it writen "i like you" i like him too and so a lil while after i tell him but when i was about to tell my bf (girl) his bff that he says no I'm like okay.....but when i saw him in the begining when i walked into the movies he showed me his fone and it said "you look nice but don't tell jess i told u that" i didn't but i did tell her that i he told me that he liked me... we start goofing off during the movie and flirt and playin wit each other's hand......anyways 2 days later hasn't talked to me hasn't sent me text, called me not even and IM.....whats his deal why did he tell me? what was his purpose? did he really feel that way about me?
2007-06-26 17:59:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jess is my best friend and she is also his best friend forever
2007-06-26 18:00:31 · update #1
If he really likes u then he wont let u go ......
Whatever u have narrated is equally true for someone who likes u or for someone simply flirting wid u....
May be he is flirting with both u and Jess as whtever he has shown is thru his phone and has not directly told u anything.
If he really wants to tell that he loves then u he cud have messaged u personally.
The possible solution is this that u both need to talk together over this. Ask him simply whether he loves u or not?
And also ask why did he asked him not to tell to Jess?
Ask him if he really likes u then to confess this in front of u and Jess.
2007-06-26 18:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by Luvs2Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this situation and I was the guy. I actually went ahead and had some fun with the girl in your position. Since that other girl (Jess) and her were such good friends, they were totally cool with it. However, I didn't want to push it so I didn't call her and waited for her to call me. Thus, just hurry up and call him dagnabit.
2007-06-26 18:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but evidentally he did not want Jess to know because they are more than just friends. He is trying to play the two of you.
2007-06-26 18:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he took one step in showing interest now you have to do the same.
Why dont you call him or text him?
he is probably thinking that you dont cause you want nothing to do with him.
This is what your thinking right now so just break the ice and open communication.
2007-06-26 18:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just got attracted to u from the way u looked after that forgot abt it. B careful of such guys, they r just looking 4 one night stand and nothing more.
2007-06-26 18:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by Ben B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isnt sur eif you like him. He might feel that you just said that to not make him feel awkard. Try talking to him. Or ask Jess what's going on with him.
2007-06-26 18:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,He just loves you,but he needs kinda of careness from you,he told you what he thinks from you,he took you to the movie,which is a good place for people who are dating,he just shown you his direction,may be he doesn't like to waste his time or he doesn't like to harm himself if you don't follow the suit!!Got it?
2007-06-27 00:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by Dioscore D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so confused. is jess your girlfriend or your friend and he just didn't want her to know?
but yea maybe he's waiting for you to talk to him. maybe he's thinking the same thing you are right now and wondering if you actually like him. i'd send him a text message or something.
2007-06-26 18:05:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks like he didnt want his friends to find out that he like you because they might not like that. I dont know why but maybe he is shy to let them know that he likes you.
2007-06-26 18:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't call girls when they just flirt with your hand.
2007-06-26 18:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋