O.k. I know I am not in love with my XX boyfriend, but when he comes around old feelings just pop back up, its like I dont want to be in no relationship with him, but I wouldnt mind having sex with him,I dont know if I should because he has a girlfriend at the time but everytime I call he comes, should or shouldnt I have sex with him?????
2007-06-26 17:51:14 · 10 answers · asked by LiL B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. The fact that you have doubts about it at all means you should not. You will regret it. Friends with benefits isn't as fun as it sounds. Trust me.
2007-06-26 17:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by Cristina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really should not be having sex with someone from your past.
Men do not look at sex as women do. They see it as a physical need with no emotional attachment.
On the other hand, women see sex as an emotional connection. Women associate sex with emotions and think men see it as something special when all men really feel is a need to orgasm with no real desire for what is on the other side.... hence prostitution.
Leave him alone and give yourself time to fall in love with someone who feels the same about you.
2007-06-26 17:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. ask how he feels and if he wants to have sex with you and since he's a guy he will probably say yes. But be careful his girlfriend doesn't find out and make sure you are ok with being the other girl if he wants to continue seeing his girlfriend. But i'm a guy and i was dating a girl who had a boyfriend already but she dumped him for me. so i don't know. i hope it works out for you. just follow your heart.
2007-06-26 17:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect his girlfriend and dont do it, how would you feel if you were girlfriend with a guy and his ex was on yahoo asking ppl if she should sleep with him even though he has a girlfriend
its not fair, if you dont want it to be done to you, dont do it to someone else
karma is a b***
2007-06-26 17:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok when you get another boyfriend i hope some girl comes along and sleeps with him just to piss you off.
2007-06-26 18:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by JaggedLittlePill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i wouldn't just because he has another women. Wait until they break up and then get your grove on. Go and find another man.
2007-06-26 17:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by maverick29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this...how would you feel if he was screwing some other girl while he was your boyfriend? If you don't have a problem with that, go for it.
2007-06-26 17:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by Leather and Lace 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with him. Because that would mean he would be having sex, and I won't be.
2007-06-26 17:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by Malcolm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not only should you have sex with him,but also his girlfriend
2007-06-26 17:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a girlfriend no.
I didn't really understand your question though.
thats all I really got out of it.
that and you must be really desprate.
2007-06-26 17:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by steff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋