My personal Banker is cute and I think he finds me attractive as well. He looks deep into my eyes and smiles alot when I see him. I would like to go out with him, he wears no wedding ring and has no pictures of a wife in his cube. I havn't dated in a long time but I do know I do not want to be the one to ask him out. If he really was interested do you think he would ask me out? Or could he be shy? How can I get him to ask me out? Any advice would be appreciated.
2007-06-26 17:30:03 · 7 answers · asked by Lori O 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he might be quite reluctant to ask you out since you are his client.....I know that if I were in his position I would be very hesitant to ask you out. Think about it.....what if you declined his offer? That would probably make things quite awkward between the two of you, and then you might take your business elsewhere....he probably wouldn't want to take that risk. So, the best thing you can do is ask him out. Why don't you want to ask him out? Are you scared of rejection? Old fashioned and think the guy should always make the first move? Whatever the reason, I think you should put that aside and go for it.....you don't want to be sitting here years from now thinking about what could have been......do you? ASK HIM OUT!!!!! lol
2007-06-26 17:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he just goes around looking deep into your eyes during lunch breaks? Well, I would say go out with him. Spicy office affairs are the bomb! How do you do this? Well first go out to lunch with him all business like. Then, be a bit friendly. Somewhere in between professional friends and friend friends. See if he bites. If he does, don't date him because who bites people anymore? If he seems interested, then ask him out. He will like the initiative you took and will feel less pressure. If this works out, please send me some bank account numbers. I need some money bad.
2007-06-26 17:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he might be shy , maybe he does not know how to come up to you and ask you out and if he does not know that you like him that could be it , but wait for a little bit and see give him some time. Some guys have hard time asking girls out , I don't know if you ever showed him that you like him or anything like that if you didn't you might want to just little signs that you like him trust me it helps
2007-06-26 17:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by Danijela K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not mix finances and relationships-- if you want a relationship, first have an account with another bank, so if things go bad, your exposure is limited.
Then, you should take the leap and ask him out. You can't win if you don't play, and you'll never know until you ask. It's just that simple.
Good Luck
2007-06-26 17:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is easy: you have to show him a sign one thats so obvious if he was not looking at you he could tell you wanna go out.
2007-06-26 17:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by tom t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-26 17:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your gonna have to do the asking as your his client so dunno if he can. have a chat and try and find out where he goes so you can accidentially bump into him there! that way he's not at work so he can ask you out
2007-06-26 17:34:41 · answer #7 · answered by Andrea C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋