ANY one agree with me on this?

Question

When i was 16 i was into drugs had alot of drama in my life, got arrested 3 times, and put on probation for 2 years, when i was on probation it started 9/12/05-9/12/07 and i lost my license on 10/1/05-10/1/07, I HAVE BEEN CLEAN off ANY drugs since 11/1/05 and never touched them since. They will not let me get my license, im 19 live isolated bc of the town i live in, i CANT get a job bc we dont have buses or anything, no1 can drive me anywhere, and the nearest place which is a middleschool is an hour walk, why is it that i got caught with some drugs i lose my life even though im not doin em anymore, BUT child molesters get off with a slap on the wrist or sex offenders in general?

like 2 travel or w/e his name is dont know my life, 1st of all i lost my bestfriend and i had a job workin at fedex 1am-7am im talkin about now dumbass, by the way i live near a middle school does that exites you?, cuz from ur answer it seems like it, huh? chester huh? u love it huh? HAHA

chiari


i live in wilmington like 10 minutes from lowell

i am also sorry about what happened in your past and i wish u the best also

MEL!!!!!! how do u not believe this question im not gettin it, BTW no i wasnt drivein while i was caught i was sittin in a mcdonalds parkin lot

and also my P.O did alot of steps 2 help me out he knew i was clean for the whole time with random tests. And me and My PO have a good relationship

Answer 1

Wow... I hear ya.... but different cases go different ways.... the best thing to do is not to dwell on that part, but focus on getting your stuff back together...
I'm in SC.... don't know where you are, but I know here, you can apply for a "hardship" license.....
It lets you drive only certain times of the day, and you have to take a specific route, but it lets you get to work and home....
You should check into that in your state, and if you don't have any way to do something like that, you should check into getting a lawyer if you can.....
don't really know what else to tell you....
Good Luck..... and LOTS OF RESPECT for tryin to get back on your feet!

Answer 2

That's a tough question the laws that we basically have in this country can be bent when you have the power and that's something we can do anything about it and sometimes we make mistakes and we get punish and there are people that do worst things and they are let go of it but as you know now life is not fear and we just have to get use to it because life is a big pile of things that we need to be able to understand and everything we are going to be Abel to understand IT. The good thing is that we have Carma and every thing will eventually come back to us and the same goes with the good things we do everything eventually will line up and you will be rewarded for what you did with your life.

Answer 3

I think any offense has it's consequences. You were in a lot of trouble, yet it seemed like that didn't stop you from continuing with that behavior. You can excuse the "drama" in your life on the drug abuse, but I think you need to come to terms with the actions you've taken. It's no ones fault but your own.

Aside from the sex offender thing. I think it is equally consequential. Child molesters and sex offenders have to get added to the list, which is out there for anyone to find. They also have restrictions on where they can live, who they can work with on some cases, etc.

Again, either way these people have chosen their future. Some more seriously than others. The only thing you can do is obey the rest of your probation officer's rules, etc.

Answer 4

Child molesters usually go to prison. You got probation, plus you won't have to register as a sex offender for the rest of your life.
There is zero tolerance for underage drivers, so you have to live with the terms of your conviction.
If you had said arrested once, I might have been a little more inclined to agree, but 3 times?
It's just too bad that you had to learn this lesson the hard way.

Answer 5

I would love to see an example of sex offenders getting off with a slap in the wrist. You lost your license because you were habitualy using things that impaired your ability to drive and most likely got caught driving using something illegal. You did the crime, do the time and be a man.

Edit-- You seem to have internet access. There are literally hundreds of work from home jobs such as telemarketing and other things. So don't give me that can't get a job crap.

Answer 6

If you were under 18 years of age when all the crimes were committed your record should have been exponged. You should go to your closest police station and file a report or talk to someone, or explain the situation to the MOT or DMV. You shouldn't have to pay your whole life for a couple of mistakes you made when you were young... I definitely agree with you...

Answer 7

So you have 3 more months to go? That's a slap on the wrist. Sex offenders do not generally get 2 years probation.

Answer 8

Unfortunitly those punishments are supposed to discourage you from doing those things in the first place. It doesn't always work that way, but be patient.. good things will come if you stay clean and out of trouble

Answer 9

Uhhh.... child molesters and sex offenders don't get a slap on the wrist..... they go to JAIL for YEARS!! Congrats on not doing drugs anymore, but consider yourself lucky to not be behind bars. Use this time to figure out what you want to do with your life and work towards doing it. Let your past mistakes be in your past and deal with what you have to deal with and move on to the next phase of your life. Don't dwell on things that happend in the past. Work towards a new you!!! :)

Answer 10

Try petitioning the court for a hardship license.