Are guys really after a real relationship with females or just for the sex?
2007-06-26 17:24:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on the guy
2007-06-26 17:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two types of guys.
The players are the ones who wants to just have sex with as many women as possible. They are never be happy with settling down, and they are unlikely to change. These are the guys that women complain about, write songs about (ie Carrie Underwood), etc.
After a guy had his share of fun or become mature enough, he hopefully would realize that sex was just sex. For him to grow up to move on to the next stage, he would look after relationship. Sex was an added bonus to a good relationship.
Sadly, a lot of time, players will be players, and that's when infidelity occurs. I always said that, any guy will cheat if the opportunity is there and there is no risk of him getting caught. But nice guys are less likely to cheat, because he had too much to risk. Players, on the other hand, will risk it. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-06-27 00:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ask that question ... every guy is different. I suggest you not worry about it. Girls just complain about that whenever they get hurt. Besides if it were true it wouldnt really matter because it wouldnt change anything. You like who you like.
I would say most guys (depending on age) are after a real relationship but still most would like sex.
2007-06-27 00:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is the first thing we think of the as we get to know u it becomes a relationship, or it can be just sex it's all on how u start things off. women always set the tempo on what it will become
2007-06-27 00:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by souelreavertate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, it actually depends with the character of individual if they a up to it they will show it .However they ar others who ar seriously with life . then be carefully and smart when selecting some consider all factors that make up a good person .Otherwise they might use u as their shoes and late abandon u as a shanty house .
2007-06-28 23:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by hussin j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some man are after sex, but you would know if he's serious about the relationship and trynna grow emotionally/ spiritually/ physically...for the long-term!
jus follow your heart and not the sex..lol
2007-06-27 20:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU MAY ASSUME THAT ALL MEN WOULD LOVE TO MEET -->> ONE GOOD WOMAN.
Even the "players".
Men will crawl through sh-t for "one good woman". . . . but the problem is, that women don't even KNOW this.
They blindly believe that ALL MEN are pigs with only one thing on their mind. . . . but if there is something WRONG with wanting to HAVE FUN, then feel free to call us "pigs" all you want.
LOL!
Think about it. If all men are after is SEX . . . . then WHY would they BOTHER spending their precious TIME with women . . . dating them . . . talking to them . . . sitting with them for hours . . . over and over . . . KNOWING that she can always say "no" to sex??
Since "time is money" . . . .Wouldn't men (if they were only after sex) be better off hiring a "professional"(?) . . . a woman who is a "SURE THING" . . . .who's JOB it is to come over WHEN he wants , to give him exactly WHAT he wants, HOW he wants it, and then pay her to LEAVE so that he doesn't have to deal with "that other stuff" that women THINK he has no interest in??
If you think about it good and hard . . . You will see that I just PROVED that MEN DON'T JUST WANT SEX.
If that's all they wanted . . . they wouldn't be "wasting" their time on YOU.
:)
2007-06-27 00:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to me a real relationship includes sex --- it can help you get closer and for better or worse if you are not compatible sexually then the relationship is going to be rocky --- best wishes
2007-06-27 00:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all on the dude
but most are just in it for the sex beacuse thats why they want to be in a realtionship for or be a pimp!
2007-06-27 00:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, why would guys marry women then, just for sex?
2007-06-28 09:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋