I am 34. I have no friends. I have never had a girlfriend. I am ugly. I don't want to be alone, but it looks like I will be alone for the rest of my life. What can I do to make people like me? Please help.
2007-06-26 16:00:08 · 6 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be so hard on yourself, you have qualities I'm sure any woman would like you for. Just be yourself, don't try to be someone your not. If you just relax and carry on a normal conversation with a woman she may find you interesting and how you present yourself is important. Reflect on all the good qualities you have and that you could bring into a relationship.
It all starts with liking yourself because if you are not comfortable with who you are it will show and that will keep women from wanting to know about who you are and what you have to offer. It isn't going to be easy, but if you take the first step in liking you then everything else will fall into place.
You will have more confidence in yourself and being comfortable with how you look will show others that you like who you are not what others may think of you. It's also about overcoming your insecurities you can do it you just have to believe in yourself and stand tall. Best of luck in your endeavors
2007-06-26 16:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by setfree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you will. This is really common advice, but join some kind of organization or take some kind of class and just be as social as you can. Talk to anyone, it doesn't matter who. Just try loosening up with people, that's the first step. Maybe even try to meet people through family. When you find a girl you like, try to get to know her, you don't have to outright flirt with her. Chicks can still dig ugly guys after getting to know them.
And you know, at 34, you could still have a lot of life left.
Good luck!
2007-06-26 16:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, first you have to like yourself. If you dont even like yourself, how can you expect other people to like you? When I was a teenager my older sister told me to walk around like I was all that and people would think I was all that. I'm not the type of person to do THAT but I got the point. Imagine the type of person you want to be. But not a specific person you want to be like, thats not what I mean. And get on the road to becoming that perfect person. Here is a tip though- the best way to show people that you respect yourself is to take care of yourself and look decent. Examples- eating healthy, exercising, hygeine, wearing clean clothes, brushing your hair, etc. Email me if you want some tips!
2007-06-26 16:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by morgan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Larry, take these 2 people's advice. its not too late to change. if i were you i would go online and look up "how to date women". you will find some informative e-books that you can purchase for a very modest price. buy one of these e-books, download it, and read it. read it once, read it twice, go over it a few times. i tried this once and the book was very informative. it really made a lot of sense. go ahead and give it a try. it definitely can not hurt.
2007-06-26 16:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how about make an effort to meet people?? im still waiting for you to email me
2007-06-27 01:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by Ruth Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-mail me.
2007-06-27 15:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋