I met his brother at a big family birthday party and we ended up talking for about an hour. He was very nice and very kind to me. I was attracted to him. I am sure the feeling was mutual, but we both kept our distance and even though we had amazing things in common, I stayed away.
On the other hand, I have been dating my significant other for 4 yrs with no feelings shared, no "I love you" not even a hint of a future for us from him.
Is it wrong to be interested in his brother? Should I stay away, or leave it open to future possiblities. He was handsome, kind and I think we shared an attraction.
2007-06-26 15:58:13 · 5 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel like the brother I am dating has had every opportunity to express his desire for me, but kind of put off that he never tells me how much he cares. I am a woman and I need someone to express to me that I am desireable and give them goose bumps when we kiss.
2007-06-26 16:04:52 · update #1
I know the brother I am dating can feel the mutual attraction.
2007-06-26 16:09:41 · update #2
Hey, you never know if you have the wrong brother or not! You've been dating his brother for a good number of yrs. w/o feeling shared? That's really odd. NO, there would not be a problem for you to be interested in his brother I wouldn't think. It honestly sounds like the one you're going with isn't that serious to begin w/to be dating for that period of time & still not be "serious". What do you have to loose than to go for it. I don't think you'd be loosing anything great if nothing becomes of either! Find out if there might be an attraction.
2007-06-26 16:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 12:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by threat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His brother is off limits. Trust me you don't want to get in the middle of 2 brothers and have them fight over you. They'll both end up hating you.
2007-06-26 16:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jared 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave the possiblities open. 4 years with no I love you? That's a bit weird to me.
2007-06-26 16:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by clashingtaco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not stupid. u cant help hu u like. just be careful since ur dating the guy. but srsly, 4 yrs, no i love you - the saying "take it slow" is now on a whole new level
2007-06-26 16:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by EyeOnTheHorizon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋