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2007-06-26 15:41:52 · 24 answers · asked by Love Yahoo!!! wannabe a princess 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Well it depends on who you are missing. If it is a past love- then you just have to get out meet new people and get on with your life. You will find someone new and it will be easier.
If you are homesick, then find some some good friends to take your mind off things. And call home whenever you are missing your family if you can.
If someone died then well it just takes time. Remember the Lords plan of salvation. You will be together again.
In any case- it just takes time. Take time to mourn and be sad- sitting around in your pajamas eating chocolate ice cream from the carton and watching sad movies is an important step, but only for a day or two- then you need to get out and have some fun.
2007-06-27 06:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If someone you love had died, your love is on hold (until reunited with them).
If you break up with someone, usually you remember only the good, and that becomes imbalanced. You have to remember the bad, too. Don't let your fantasy guide you. Over time, they may not be the same person you have created in your heart and mind.
If a loved one is away from you for a short period of time, but will be back... know that you will be reunited.
Only the most loving people are the ones who miss others. It is more of a reflection upon how good you are, than those being missed.
2007-06-26 22:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by kNOTaLIAwyR 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you miss them.
I miss my Mom. that will never change.
I miss my fiancee when we're apart, but we are eventually together, so I wait.
If you miss a friend who moved away, write them a letter and stay in touch.
If you find that you miss everyone who enters and exits your life, continue to meet new people and try to look at each person around as playing a cameo role. For you, life is an adventure. Approach it that way.
If you miss an EX, maybe you can work it out. Your next friend will relieve you of that.
Good luck.
2007-06-26 22:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by JOHN G 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you mean the people in our lives who have passed on, I have found that knowing that they will be waiting for me when I pass, gives me comfort.
If you are a praying person, ask God to give you comfort, and show you a sign. Often, He will reveal your loved one's joy and peace through your dreams.
The actual process of grief takes from 2-5 years and we never really stop missing them. It does become less painful with time and allowing the grieving process to proceed.
Reminiscing with others who knew them helps, as does recalling pleasant memories of them, although most find this phase more comforting after a few years, rather than immediately after their death. God bless.
2007-06-26 22:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by woman of faith 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking about a loved one who has died....you just remember they will be back soon when Jesus raises them from the dead after Armageddon.
If you are talking about a lost love, possibly a divorce or breakup...you never do...it just eases up after a while so you can survive it. Time seems to heal all wounds of this type but the truth is the pain gets less as you become busier.
If you are talking about a child that your ex has it will be good if you keep in contact through letters and phone calls. Don't let the child forget you.
If someone has gone to jail...they are still alive and there is still hope for the future they will get out.
2007-06-26 22:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The more time you spend away from them, the easier it gets.
But I don't think we ever really stop missing the people we love. Just the intensity becomes lesser.
2007-06-26 22:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sapere Aude 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is painful to 'lose' people when they move away or don't call, etc.
I have found that when I write them a letter (not an email) and spend a lot of time with it, it helps.
Sometimes 'scrap booking' helps, too. Paste in pictures, memories, write inside...be creative...have fun with it.
Only time heals pain like this, so give it time. There are a lot of wonderful people in the world...meanwhile, stay active and stay in touch with those you love.
2007-06-26 22:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by Eve 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds..
Get on with living without them and after a while it becomes easier and easier even if you never stop missing them completely..
2007-06-26 22:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why they are gone. Time really does heal all wounds and prayer helps. I don't think you ever really stop missing anyone, but it does ease up after a time.
2007-06-27 08:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by bran72072 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You never stop missing someone. My dad died 14 years ago, and I still miss him so much that it hurts.
2007-06-26 22:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by mothers_against_jesus 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋