Most Grils would die to have a chance to be with the guys I know. At frist it was fun playing around with them and all ways getting what I wanted by just asking but now I feel like I have made my self heartless. I can name 5 men right now that would love me with everything they have, they all have great lifestyles, come from good familys and respect me. But I want nothing to do with them... and I let them know that I'm not looking to date anyone .... but i Really want to be with someone. Someone that I Love as much as they love me... but i have no love for anyone the only person I can truly say I love is my mother and sometime I have to make my self believe that . I know that I'm really young... but I really am older than my age. I don't want to fall in love right now but I just want to feel like I could ... because i'm really starting to think that I can't and thats the worst feeling I've ever felt.. and I've been though alot. I just want to feel like a human..
2007-06-26 15:03:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say you have been through "alot"? Without specifics, I have to assume that has to be part of the reason. You might want to talk to someone about any issues you may have.
I know how you feel! I have been hurt alot by people and now I wonder whether I can "truly" love someone. I DO believe when I find that person that it will just "click"!
Don't force it! If you don't feel like dating now, then don't!
Just because you don't feel the desire to fall in love, does not make you less of a human being. If you ignore everything else I say, remember that!
2007-06-26 15:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should force yourself to fall in, or to love somebody. you're gonna fall in love when its time. u said it yourself you're too young. so maybe you stop seeing these guys for a moment.
get busy doing something else to keep your mind off the all dating thing for a while. if u don't u might hurt somebody's feeling making yourself believe that you love him. so be very careful with this. good luck.
2007-06-26 22:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by rali b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make yourself feel love. It just happens. You say you think you have made yourself heartless. If you feel that way then it's clear that you haven't. Maybe you need to learn to like yourself first.
2007-06-26 22:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the qualities of these men are wonderful qualities. But the one thing that is missing is love. If you don't love any of them.... some other girl will thank you later...lol.
You will find your love.... I just hope they are half the man these guys seem to be.
2007-06-26 22:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you how to fall in love. But when you do, you'll know, and you won't be asking the question in this forum.
2007-06-26 22:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋