i dated this girl for a while and we were really in love but i messed up plenty of times and its been 6 months since we broke up .. and now she has a boyfriend and likes him alot but i still love her and i would do anything to get her back..wut should i do to get her back?
2007-06-26 14:47:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you didn't love her enough to do right by her, love her enough to let her go. Use the lessons you've learned (assuming you have learned your lesson) to keep you from messing up your next relationship. She is happy and has moved on don't try to pull her back into your life with some crap.
2007-06-26 14:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, Do not over text her. She will get annoyed and if you keep telling her "TAKE ME BACK I LOVE YOU." Learn here https://tr.im/BK6eP
She will not want you even more. You need to show her that you don't need her and can live your life without her. She still cares about you I am sure. Maybe try "flirting" with other girls around her to make her jealous. I know its bad, but if i saw my ex flirting with someone else it would make me REALLY ANGRY. However, you still need to show her you care about her too. Show her what she's missing and remind her of it. Be confident and don't show your broken heart. Try ignoring her? Girls hate that. You want her to come to you. Once she does this YOU have all the power.
She will realize what you mean to her and she will hopefully come crawling back. (I am in the same situation as you, except I am the girl trying to get my ex back). Try not to be so clingy and give her space. But try to be around so she sees you, but don't talk to her much. Keep convos short and if you txt her, which you shouldn't, then also keep it short and bland. This will be hard to do because you just want to let her in your life again, but you can't. If you show her that you are desperate to get her back, she won't go for it. Make her come to you and REMIND her of all that she is missing out on. Hope this helps. And trust me, I know how you feel. Girls usually come around easier than guys so you should be lucky. ughh wish i could say the same.
2016-07-19 18:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/NIb9u
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-28 12:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by evia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 00:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by fauntleroy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. If she wants to come back, it will be by her own choice. You can't "get back" anyone--it sounds like you loaned someone your bat and ball and now you changed your mind. Women are not things. If she comes back, consider yourself lucky, and don't mess up again.
2007-06-26 14:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what you did.
If you fill me in on a couple more things, I'm sure I can help you out.
2007-06-26 14:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by jennifer21591 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can only be happy if your ex-gf is happy.
the question is -
is your ex-gf more happy with new BF or you?
that will take some work, practical experience to find out.
Whatever the results....respect them and move on.
2007-06-26 14:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have ya heard of the song its too late baby?? well think about iit..ya said you really love her..hmm well if you loved her..you wouldnt of hurt her and messed up over an over... she is hppy with someone else..seems to me you cnat get her back.. this isnt somethign that you love so much one day and continue messing up ... the trust she had for you has to be gone..and you messed up so suck it in.. and if its met to be ..it will be if not go on with yourself and good luck
2007-06-26 14:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by bettym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her let her be happy and just be her friend. Don't confuss her now, just be a good guy and friend
2007-06-26 14:51:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
become friends with her.
wait for her to break up with the guy, then tell her that you still have feelings for her.
And apologize for messing up, and mean it.
2007-06-26 14:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋