Well, there is this boy that I kinda like. Me and him are friends. But we're not close or anything and we only talk every now and then. Well, he has a gf whom he has been dating for almost 8 months now. We dont talk and we are aquantices (? spelling). Things have been going rocky between them and everyone wants them to break up b/c they say that he is mean and stuff. I have been thinking about him alot. But idk if he would even consider us as a couple. I know what I should do...just leave it be. But I want some advice anywayz. Gracias...<333...Thanx.
2007-06-26 14:43:36 · 19 answers · asked by Cali_Beach_Babe_<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone says he is mean and you want to date him? Sounds like a bad idea to me.
2007-06-26 14:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people are saying that he is mean why do you want to even start anything with him. I wouldn't do anything and wait and see how things work out with them. If they break up just continue to be his friend but get to know him better and see if he really is mean or if people are just saying that. After you hang out with him a month or so and really get to know him for who he is then you should be able to decide if it is really worth it to date him if he feels the same as you do.
2007-06-26 21:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jess B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to know enough about him to know you should leave him alone, at least until he has no gf....and from your conversations I think even now because he may be thinking of dumping or treating his gf badly just to have a chance to hook up with you...either way, he doesn't sound like the type you want to be bf/gf with...he would do the same thing to you once another girl shows interest in him just as you are doing.
2007-06-26 21:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this:
1) you like a guy
2) the guy is involved with a girl
3) you hear from everybody that he's mean to her
Sweetie, do you really want an answer to this question?
He's no good. Find yourself another guy who respects you and stop thinking about this guy.
2007-06-26 21:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by peachy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you only talk every now and then and are not close I doubt he's thinking about you. Sorry, but it is true.
You may like him and may want to start talking to him more to get him to notice you.
If he is mean and the cause of the relationship's problems then you should probably not date him.. do you really want that drama?
2007-06-26 21:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"We don't talk and we are acquaintances" but "me and him are friends"--Girl, figure out what you want. If he and his girl haven't broken up, stay away from him. If they do break up and he wants to date you, find out the truth about this "mean stuff" before you go out. And if you only talk once in a while and you're not close, I would say go find someone else.
Da nada
2007-06-26 21:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, all my relationships fell a victim to gossip, thats how I lost love, people gossiping!!
I hate that and I feel sympathy to this couple because I know what they must be going through with all the rumours
2007-06-26 21:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You heard about his bad treatment of his current lady. Know that what you see up front is what you get. You will not be able to change him. Longing for love, so many women take what they can get, forgetting that true love starts with self love. Love yourself enough to attract someone who can apprecite you.
2007-06-26 21:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by gilpers302 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forbidden love are mistakes of nature. It's totally wrong that is why it is forbidden. Don't start a relationship with wrong motives, honey. When you plant a seed of wrongful doing, it will blossom into disaster. Period.
2007-06-26 21:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by Sporty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear cal beach baby
If he is treating her bad he well be doing the same to you. Why would you want to be treated bad? Find a nice guy that well treat you like a princess not a beach bum
2007-06-26 21:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋