I've been friends with this guy for 3 years. I've liked him for 2 of those 3 years. I don't go to his school, we both just see each other every summer for 4 weeks, and every once in a while throughout the year. He probably doesn't like me. We used to be better friends than we are now, we still talk but there is just a lot going on. I don't want to ask him out, because then he would probably say no and it would be all weird between us. I don't want that to happen so what should I do?
2007-06-26 14:42:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i were you, i would not ask them out. it is just going tobreak the relationship you already have with him: friends. and think about it,,, if you guys go out and then then sombody breaks up with thhe other person, how is the friendship gonna work out after that? just stay the way you are, and good luck ;)
2007-07-04 14:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... i would say...dont ask him out..because...u barely ever see him and long distance relationships never work...and of course you dont want to ruin your friendship....i have asked out my guy friend before and we really havent been the same since and it is killing me but we are working it out. And Best friends like that usually end up getting married and stuff like that anyways...so just wait and it will probably happen eventually...in the mean time..have some fun!
2007-06-26 21:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by kiwikaci2012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the question carefully ocobride and then answer. She don't want to listen no.
My suggestion is to ask him and if he says no he don't like you, then what is the point of liking him. He don't deserve you in that case. Its like you want to fly but you don't have wings so why bother thinking of flying then.
2007-06-26 21:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by samranelahi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to something non commital... I know you really like jazz. The ABC group is playing this Sat. Would you like to go with me? Or, I really want to see (the newest movie out), would you like to see it with me?
2007-06-26 21:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jUST TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL, AN ANSWER IS BETTER THAN NO ANSWER. ATLEAST U WILL KNOW WHERE U STAND WITH HIM. AND IF HE IS UR FRIEND AND HE DOESNT SEE U ANY OTHER WAY, ITS OKAY U STILL WILL HAVE THE FRIENDSHIP.
2007-07-04 21:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Durr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play hard to get maybe he don't want you you should not have to ask him out boths of yall are young just enjoy life if it ment to be it will be
2007-07-04 21:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. know it all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you ask him along with some of your other friends to do something that way it would not be awkward
2007-07-04 20:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. didnt even read the rest of your question.. just have balls and do it
2007-06-26 21:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋